Gone...

Yesterday me and my girlfriend split after 7 months of pure bliss...slowly it faded.
Now i dont know what to do
Im lost without her but i dont want to wait around
I know deep down i should fight for a love so special
Either way im gonna break my heart
because if we try again...the past will get in the way
help!?
i miss her so much
xxxx

its risky if ya dont know how she feels.
on one hand she could be missing you too and be regretting the split but on the other hand she might want to move on. even if ya did get back together, would the same problems still be there?

It hurts, I know from experience. I had a 6 month relationship with this guy I met when I was younger. He was incredible and I loved him more than anything or anyone else in the world. When we broke up, it felt like my world had ended and I just couldn't deal with it anymore. I still miss him, yes. But...ok, this is going to sound really stupid, probably, but, have you ever heard the song "Burn" by Usher? It's basically exactly what my ex said to me before we broke up.

Trying to get back together doesn't work sometimes. Because the thing is, those old feelings are still there and it can be frustrating and you begin to feel trapped in the same problems and situations. We tried again and it was a catastrophe. You love each other, but, you start blaming each other for all the bad things and forget about the good times you've had. And you end up with an even messier break up than what you would have had if you didn't try again.

I know you probably don't want to hear this. Because at the time, I couldn't bare to hear comments like these when I talked about him. It hurt way too much because, deep down, I knew it was true.

I wish you all the best and hopefully, your relationship won't be as big as a disaster as mine. It may even work out! :)

Lol. I didn't even notice it was a girl asking the question...

But, I still stand by my earlier comment

Lol yes i am a girl and i am a lesbian
..Thanks for your advice this pain is unbleievable
And im finding it hard to see a way out of this
But im doing my best
thanks
xxx

well my friend is kinda in the same place as you and she too is a lesbian and i am tell you the same thing as i tell her when she had this problem. you cant help how you feel and if you love her enough and you want to see where it can go again then talk to her about it and when you talk to her as maybe if you can let the past be what it is the past. thought i am not sure of the whole story and why you 2 broke up that might be more of a help but thats you bis.. anyways talk to her see how she feels and listen to you heart and what it tells you it's there for a resaon. hope i was of some help and if you like to talk more feel free to send me an email. i hope it all works ok hun goodluck and best wishes.

well i'm just going to tell you one thing listen to your heart thats the only answer because if you dont than its not going to work out i promise you that ok bye

I do not know if this will be of much help, but I have learnt something from all the pain in this life:
It is not about winning or losing, but about the effort you put go attain your goal.

I think I'm going to cry... That story is so sad and so true. Crap. Reliving old memories now. LOL.

If you love her let her go and if she returns to you then it was ment to be but if she does not then it was never ment to be. There are other girls out there, and like what my mom said to me when I lost someone special to me once a few years ago: There is more fish in the sea, and for now just be yourself and have fun.

...hey there baby bet you never think I'd find this...well I'm a little wiz kid...
well...heres the truth coz i really dont know either...
yesh to your answer i am missing you...LOADS...but it still hasnt sunk in that i'm not with you anymore...i still wake up eager for the day i see you...i still sit and think about you all day, what your doing and if you miss me or not, and i still fall asleep listening to every song that reminds me of you because your my comfort...since ive been going out with you 7months ago i've stopped needing my little comfort blanket remember that lol...and now your my comfort and theres nothing there to replace you coz i dont want to replace you...
but still we're faced with the problem that we always always have...the past...no matter how many times we try we never sort it out and it always comes back to bite us in the backside...
thats when i just get so confused...if we start again will anything change? or will we just be placed back into the same routine we had everyday the same, repeated conversations everything.
Will you still love me the same or are you going to be shaddowed over by fear that we might go through this again...will it haunt you like it did before so much that you can't move on...but what if my love just isnt enough for you? you deserve something better than i can ever give you and maybe you just need to find it........
i just want you to be happy more than anything in the world....
just find what that is....
going to go now to err......yesh
i speak soon love you sunshine
xxxxxxx mwah xxxxxxxxx