Just a bit confused.....

  • *sparkles*
    19 years ago

    I have been with my boyfriend for almost 10 months and Im as happy as can be. Whenever Im with him (most of the time) I feel so happy and comfortable. I feel so secure. I know I love him, there's no doubt about it. But sometimes Im with him and things just dont' feel the same. This morning I was peachy but then a while ago I kissed him and i just didn't feel the same way. I don't know why its happening. Its happened before but it stopped shortly after. I know I love him and I don't want to break up. I just want to know if anyone has felt this way (pretty sure someone has), and how did it end up. Just what should I do or do you have a clue as to why I feel so wierd. *sighs* Thanks for reading :)

  • brit
    19 years ago

    maybe you guys are spending a little too much time together. even when people are dating, its good to have some time apart because if you are always together all the time, then people can end up getting tired of each other...trust me lol my ex was never letting me have my own time. he would be at my house in the morning before school, after wook, lunch breaks and after a while of seeing him every single day, he started to get on my nerves, not because he was being weird or anything, but because he was always there and he didnt understand that i needed my time because i didnt want to get tired of him.
    now im living my my current bf that ive been with for quite a few years and i love it, thats a little different when you start living with someone in some ways but even sometimes im happy that hes leaving for work lol hope i helped a little bit even though i blabbed on

  • *sparkles*
    19 years ago

    Thank you for your advice. I went out without him today and it was kind of a breather. The odd thing was that after I wrote the topic I was okay. I've been okay, but once in a while I get kind of cluttered. Thank you for your opinion.
    Take care.

  • x-Beth-x
    19 years ago

    Yeah I have but my feeling didn't go away. I finally realized that I was losing interest in him and eventually got sick of him. I'm sure since yours went away before it will go away again. Not to mention you guys have been dating a lot longer than me and him ever were. hope I helped :)

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