HELP ME PLEASE!!

  • Gentry
    19 years ago

    Okay... At the beginning of this school year i got my first boyfriend. Afterabout a month we parted company. (he broke up with me but I hate saying that b/c it makes him sound like an a$$ hole but he is a sweetie) anyways, we are still great friends and all but I love him so much I wish that we were still together!!Well when we broke up he left alot of things open ended about US!! So I really need to talk to him but I keep stopping myself right as I get ready to ask him if we can talk!! I am so in love with him!! He told me that maybe one day that we could get back together and I have his class ring that he gave me while we were going out and to me that ring resembles a hope that he wants me back and if e doesn't than I need to give it back so that I can let go!! Help me I am hoplessly in love!! I talk to him every day at lunch and we are still great friends and he is so easy to talk to so I don't think that talking to him will be a problem but the thing is that, school just isn't the right time and place to talk about those things and when we are on the phone one of us usually gets fussed at to hang up the phone after about 10 minutes and that just isn't enough time so I would need him to drive to my house and we could like go for a walk or a drive and then we would have time to talk!! Help me!!
    ~*-Hopelessly In Love-*~

  • Live, Laugh, Love
    19 years ago

    Hey well I went through the same thing that your going through now. But me and my boyfriend are back together now and we have been for the past 9 months. If he really loves you everythign will work out for you. Just try to talk to him about it. Don't let it be at school though thats always the worst place to talk about relationships and things like that. Fill us in and let us now what happens.

  • Lydia O
    19 years ago

    You didn't say WHY he broke off the relationship with you. His reason, whatever it was, might still be an important concern since this break-up was pretty recent.

    Why don't you just tell him what you said in your post and say that you need to talk to him in a place where there are not so many distractions or interruptions. Then suggest something like a walk, or a peaceful destination like a park, a sea shore or whatever (not a mall). I would avoid trying to have a serious discussion while he is driving. I hope it turns out well for you.

  • Gentry
    19 years ago

    I don;t know WHY he broke up with me!! But I want to!! Thanks Y'all are a big help!!

  • Avellana
    19 years ago

    Seems to me, he doesnt know either, but instead of talkin about it, he's... keepin u at arms length, making you think there could be a chance while hes having freedom. could you just call at his house? and then go for a walk?

    he doesnt seem the nicest of guys here babe, but if u love him. go for it.

    All the best!

    Lv A, xx