VioletRaven
19 years ago
You said you think you're pregnant. My best advice would be to find out for sure. Worrying youself sick will not do any good at all. |
Dana
19 years ago
my advice is tell someone pregnancy wont go away on its own, so youve got to deal. The first step talk to someone preferibly an adult. Talking to someone will make u less scared.You wont have to handle it all by yourself. Talk to your parents or write them a note. if you cant tell them because your afraid they may hurt you, talk to a teacher or a friend's parent, or call a hotline , like 800-230-PLAN. About 8% of teens get pregnant , so your not alone. You will get throught it. Know Ur Options you legaly have 3 options. To keep the baby , give the baby up for adoption or have an obortion. To find a clinic wheere you can learn all 3 options , go to plannedparenthood.org. No matter what you choose visit a doctor right away. If you choose abortion, experts say its best to get one in the first 3 months, when risk for complications is lowest. |
nobody truly knows me
18 years ago
i agree with kori. unless your going to help someone keep your comments to yourself. |
Angie
18 years ago
redstalker...WHY are you even here? Just like kori said, you are a heartless bitch. **Missing You** asked for advice and help, and YOU wtf is your problem? Don't you have anythin nice or positive to say? Frankly i hate people like you, who just put people down and make comments without knowing the facts. Jeez. Keep the comments to yourself! |
Juls
18 years ago
Red...keep your comments to urself if you are just going to critize people. *Missing You* I would deff go get a test done and go see a OBGYN. You have to tell your parents sooner or later even if you are scared. They have those hotlines you can call also for this type of help. My friend did that and it helped her out alot. Hope to hear back from you. |
Once an Angel
18 years ago
Baby, my two youngest sibblings are addopted. IF your prigant then you should really concider that. I don't want to start an abortion vs. Not abortion thing here, but I know an adoption agency that really does give the children too good parents. My family is a part of this agency. The are called LDS social services. Because of them I have my two younger sibblings and they are great. Also, there is a program that is offered where you can go live with a foster family for you prigancy and have the baby with them and everything and then you can go back home to your life and stuff and the baby will have a good home. Girls have done that with my family b4 and we would even be willing to do that for you (but I don't know if we live anywhere near eachother) but still. There are options about what to do when you are prigant and you don't have to get an abortion if you don't want to be a mom right now. The adoption agency I told you about is a REALLY GOOD one and the are VERY SELECTIVE about the families they let have the kids. They are all religious families with a father and a mother. I know you are really scared right now, but you can handle this and I will help if you want me to. If you are worried about telling your parents about the baby, then go and talk to your school counselor (if your still in school) and she will get the father, your parents and the father's parents together to disguess the options. Hunny I love you and you can make it through this. First of all, make sure you are prigant for sure and if you are, I will help in any way I can. I promise. |