Two faced "best friend" - how much does that hurt

I found out today that when I needed my best friend most, and when I was talking things throught with her she was complaining about me and being two faced. She said to a friend "Kim keeps layng all her problems on me, she just doesn't realise I might have my own problems" and the friend replied "Well that's what friend do when they need someone to talk to." My "best friend" said "Yeah but I might have my own problems" and upon asked i she had, she said no, and was told she was selfish for being so two-faced. Do you think she was in the right, and in my situation what would you do? Do I confront her or leave it?

hmm... I can so speak from experience here!! I would leave it, but just remember what has happened so the same thing isn't repeated in the future. Personally wouldn't be able to say who is in the right as I can see both sides of the argument but as you say thats what friends are for, to listen and help you through problems. She should try to be a bit more understanding and definately not go bitch about it to another friend!

well i been here hun. yeah she was being a lil two-faced but some times are feeling get the best of us. talk to her but be nice about it be like hey um can we talk and just say well you know some of the things i been going through and i hard some things about you saying that you were sick of me coming to you with my problems and i have enough going on i dont want to stress things between us were friends friend come to friends for help and i thank you for being there for me and if you have problems that you need to talk abou tthat what i am here for so talk to me and if somethings wrong talk to me dont go saying things about be behind my back hope it's of help

Fire fly:
Thanks for your response, yeah it is a great help. I will probably have to talk to her before I start becoming cold towards her, ive already lost all respect for her but yeah, thanks.