our relationship is just an image

my boyfriend, we've been going out for a month and at first it was great but now it feels like our relationship is just a show to him, an image... it feels like all he does is to make himself look good, sometimes he looks like he doesnt care in order to look cool. everyday i see him i know whats gonna happen. but then once i want to end it and say ive had enough he goes and starts being SSSSSSSSSSSSSOOOOOOOOOOO nice and sweet that i just cant do it and i mean maybe this is just the beginning and we need to get more comfortable with each other and i want to hope that it will get better.... oh i dont know please help

Does he know how you feel? Try talking to him. Ending it after a month isnt really giving the relationship a chance IMO.

Best of luck to you though

It sounds like he quickly reached his comfort level and he feels like he no longer needs to keep trying to impress you in the same way he did at first. You could tell him that what means the most to you is the way he treats you and acts toward you. And that is far more important than just 'looking good.' You didn't mention anything relating to other aspects of your relationship so I'm just throwing this out there. I think that, in addition to love and companionship, good relationships need a healthy dose of fun and excitement in new and different ways. Otherwise the relationship becomes too routine and causes the guy to fall into a rut.
Good Luck!

umm thanks a whole bunch, i in fact tried talking to him and he said he didnt see anything wrong at all... he was completely happy which made me a bit irritated. and i dont know how to explain it and back my observations up in order to change our relationship.... but the for the comfort level idea. :D