AHHHHHH

I dunno what to do.... my boyfriend is soo confusing... when were together he really seems like he loves me and holds me all day and night... but when we are not together (we go to different schools) it seems like he has to go out of his way to call me or when i call him hes always working or busy... Im so not sure what to do... i miss him alot because we always used to talk like every day but ever since he got this new little job thinger he never has time for me... and i know its not his fault i just dont know what to do.... help me!!! I seriously dont know what to do anymore.... and i dont really want to talk to him about it because i dont want to make it seem like im making a big deal out of nothing...

hey, i think you should talk to him about it. tell him that you feel a little left out in his life. in the situation i still think he likes you very much hes just not making time. so if you talk to him im sure things will get straighend out.

first get someone to follow him to make sure he is actually telling you the truth cause it sounds like he may be distancing himself from you for a reason. I don't know what the reason could be, but maybe hes living a double life. So find out if he is telling the truth and if he isn't then you need to find someone that wont do that and will at least try and call you or email you. But if he is telling the truth then don't worry about it.

no i know that he acutally has a job becuase i have seen him there... i dunno i dont think hes livin a double life but i never though of that... ummm yeah...

its just something to think about cause people do lie and your boyfriend is no exception. People can look like their doing something but isn't. An people say they gunna do one thing and then do something totally different. its just something to think about.

yeah i guess so... but like my cuz is like best friends with him and i think he would tell me if somethin was goin on and he hasnt soo i dunno

Thinking and knowing are two entirely different things. Don't over-look anything just cause you think you trust that person.

how can i bring it up with him without soundng annoying or makeing a big deal out of nothing though???? im just soo confused about everything and ive never felt this way about anyone... im just soo scared to lose him...

All you got to do is say:

"hun I love you, and I trust you but I feel like you have been avoiding me. If I am wrong then Im sorry for bringing it up but if I am not wrong then why would you avoid me?"