Topic: First love vs Current love

Ok I am in one of those wedding jitters kind of situation. Don't get me wrong I am faithful, non-cheating, cold heart honest, laid-back mother of one whos engaged to my common law husband that I recently gave him a child on November 27th, 2004. My fiance always swears at the couch, the walls, the computer....anything that isn't doing what he wants. Hes not like this at work and hes not like this in public either, but when me an him are at home with our child its like hes a totally different person. He doesn't come to me and discuss things with me, theres next to no communication, and on top of all that he expects me to know when he is joking or not when he looks and sounds seriouse all the time. But I love my fiance, and since my first love rob dumped me for no reason then few weeks after he dumps me he ends up (this is way way way befor I got with my fiance.........I grad. in june 2003 @ John Barsby Community in Nanaimo; b.c; canada on vancouver island and I got with rob sometime in grade 9/10 ish and I got with my fiance in jan. 19th 2003 an my fiance asked me to marry him about a year or two later....) going out with donna (who is now my sister in law), then she dumps him few months later for some other guy (shes been doing that for a while an still is doing that). I know I am getting married soon and rob has a girlfriend but I still wonder if I am making the right choice. I know my fiance loves me alot, without any doubts and I feel the same for my fiance. But theres a part of me that loves my ex-boyfriend rob dispite the fact that he had no reason to dump me and done so publicly anyhow for (at the time) best friend donna ( shes not my best friend anymore ). I don't cheat and I am faithful so please don't try an make me look bad cause theres no need for that. An if you understand what I just wrote then great I appreciate the advice; but if your confused by any means of what I wrote just now then please keep your comments to yourself. thanks :)

I just wanna know if I am making the right choice by marrying my fiance dispite all this.....

please HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I know i'm only young (yep 14) but one thing i know is that no matter what happens you've just got to listen to your heart...........everything will work out for you!!! Follow your heart!!
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I agree with Kori, having a talk with your fiance that you want to communicate with him more. If you are having doubts about marriage, than you have the choice to wait a while and sort your feelings out.

I believe that there will always be a special place in your heart for your ex-boyfriend as he was your first love, but as Kori said, "if your ex boyfriend cheats on his girlfriend for you, he would do the same to you."

In the end, it is your decision.

Yeh i agree with the two peoples above... Isnt there a saying that says your first love always stays with you in a tiny place locked in your heart.

I think if your finace loves you and wants to marry you then he will appreciate you coming to talk to him and trying to sort out problems with him.

But in the end you can only do what your heart tells you too.

Hope everything works okies for you =)

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