oh no lol

me and my b-f have been together for maybe 5 months now 8 if u dont count breakin up...well he kinda asked me sompthin and it scared me...by the way we are sophmores...he said if we were seniors i would ask you to marry me...im to young to be thinkin about that...but now i have the idea of it and it really scares me...one person for the rest of my life...i dont think i can do that...should i tell him this...or just let it go i dont think he will bring it back up i dont know...and i dont know why it scares me so bad...u think its cause im considering it?

of course its gonna be scary since you're only sophomores....when you get older it becomes less scary cuz you'll get tired of switching people all the time and eventually you'll be so in love with someone that you'll want to settle down and stop the immature stuff. don't worry about it, its early to think about it and thats the only reason it scares you. i say you tell him nicely...let him know that its really early to talk about it and it kinda freaks you out thinking about the future like that...don't mention the part about staying w/ one person for the rest of your life scares you b/c that might hurt his feelings.

it was probably a spur of the moment thought he had...he's a guy, they do stuff like that. don't take it too seriously, especially b/c you've only been together 5 (or 8) months...and because he wasnt suggesting anything right now.

hee hee. my friends boyfriend asked her to marry him like a month after they met! he still insists he's going to marry her.

yes i agree with kori see dont worry about it if you love that person so much and yes time is going to pass and both are going to either agree to it or no but time is going to pass and both of yall are going to make up your minds to either yes or no ok but me too i have a boyfriend hes 17 and iam 16 he is always telling how he wants me and him to be together till the day that we die and he is always talking about if we have babys how are we going to call them and were we are going to leave at first it got to me yes i was scared but i know that hes the best and time is going to pass and we are going to have other time to talk about this