I'm pregnant. Now what do i do!!??

wow, I cant help with that cuz thats some serious ....

ok... I cannot believe knowone has said this already!!! Do you not know what protection is?????
You are 14!!!!! and you are having unsafe sex... I am sorry but when I was your age I never once thought about having sex with some guy.. and I know i wasn't thinking about not using any protection.

I am a strong believer in you were grown up enough to have sex.. you are grown up enough to deal with whatever comes with it. You are now prego and have no idea who the father is... You are a kid yourself. and you are going to try and raise one..

You are a prime example as to why so many kids are messed up.. Sorry of I am being harsh on you. But where are your parents in all this??? They need to know.. and you need to deal with this matter asap.. Next time think about using protection.. and maybe not sleeping around so much at such a young age.

It really makes me sick.. how there are so many people out there that try so hard to get pregnant. and can't... BUt a young kid who has no idea what they are doing can... and they take it for granted.

Boy oh Boy, what a mess. Being 14 myself, I understand the feelings and pressure your going through right now. Everything Manders and GK, and everyone else said are excellent advice and you would be smart to do what they are saying. Very wise words they are speaking!!

Youth groups are a good way to help deal with your emotional stress right now hun, or guidance councillors.

One thing I can't stress enough, TELL YOU PARENTS/GUARDIANS!

Terri Lynn

This is all about responsibility. First, take a good look at yourself. You may consider yourself responsible. However, if you truly were a responsible individual, you would not be in this mess. You would have thought about the consequences of your actions. Anyway, being a minor, these things probably didn't enter your mind. In my opinion, you should first talk to your parents about the matter. There should be an open line of conversation between you and your parents. Tell them how you feel and apologize for your wrong actions. If ever they flare up, just listen to their counsel and wait until they have settled down.
Now, about Ronnie, try to get in touch with him. If you can't, if he's still avoiding you, just allow time. Then later on, maybe he will once again open up to you. NEVER EVER tell Lou that you are pregnant with his child, especially if your are certain that the baby is not his. By doing this, you would only make the problem bigger than it already is. However, if the DNA test proves that Lou is the father of your child, then that's the only time you are to speak to him about your pregnancy. Otherwise, just leave it at that.
I once had a friend back when I was 15. She too experienced this problem. She had a different view though...she considered abortion, or running away from home. I advice you though, NOT to perform any of these things. First of all, abortion is most definitely NOT the solution. It is, in my opinion, an act of selfishness, in a way that you are willing to sacrifice the life of an unborn child just so you would be free from your state of pregnancy. No, do not even consider abortion.
Running away...once again, NOT a solution. Even though at first, your parents may feel disappointed (as any parent would, if they found out that their 15 year old is pregnant), deep down inside, they do care for you. If you run away...where are you going to go? You can't just live on the streets. What about the future of your child? If you run away, how will you care for him or her? These questions are to be considered. So, running away from home is not the solution to your problems either.
Just speak to your parents or guardians because they are the only people who can really help you with this problem. Being your parents, they will know what is best for you and your unborn child.

I don't know so much about those things but I do know one thing:
Do not tell the other guy that hes the father to your child if he isn't.. If I was him and then I found out.. I would be very angry and mad.. so don't do that...You will regert it

hugs

hey there gurl so sorry to hear all of this. I'm 15 and life is rough as it is i think you should try telling your mom or maybe just some one you really trust. You may think they wont understand but chances are they will. And about the baby being ronnie's well if he doesn't want anything to do with it then by all means take him to court. He obviously is scared but that doesn't mean it isn't his responsibility. you're probably more scared then he is you have to deal with this child and a choice that is very hard at 15 to make. You need somone in your life to talk to you need to find a friend that you really trust. well i hope that some of this helped good luch chicka.