To love and lose and love again

  • Lilly
    19 years ago

    Ok... last year there was this guy (dan) hu really liked me, at the time i din't feel the same.... about 9 months later we went on a school trip.... and i bagan to really like him... so i told him and we got together... few days later he found out he was moving away in 2 weeks... so we ended it....

    after a month or so he came back.... to stay for good... but while he was gone my friends (and his) told me some stuff about him so that when he came back i moved away when he kissed me.

    6 months later we still havn't spoken... and he's been with other girls...

    but i can't stop thinking about him.... i really like him.... and realised that all the stuff people told me wasn't really that bad, and then found out that some of them had said it cos they didn't want me to be waith dan

    but please tell me what i should do...

    when we do speak he always snaps at me, and is really moody, and in the lessons where we are together he's always busy flirting with other girls... i don't know what to do!!!

    when i see him outside lessons hes always flirting with only girls... he shows no sign of liking me as a m8 letalone anything else, but we used to be really really close

    What ahould i do? and how do i get over him?

  • Tara Kay
    19 years ago

    I am no relationship expert so don't take what im saying too seriously i may be wrong.
    I reckon this guy is a loser, if he cared about you then he wouldnt flirt with other girls when you are there, and he would make more off an effort.
    Id suggest you tell him to get a grip, tell him you'll leave him forever, make it plain to him that you like him, if he doesnt make any moves then forget him totally. He aint worth it if he doesnt see how nice you are.

  • InvisibleGurl
    19 years ago

    Get over this guy. Agreeing with the previous person, he isn't worth it. You're better than he is.

  • Lilly
    19 years ago

    thnx for the help... i'll see how things go...