waht hurts the most?

  • Jesse Ray
    18 years ago

    Your best friend dying right on your arms just because of a drunk driver. I'm against drunk driving. It's wrong.

  • VioletRaven
    18 years ago

    Knowing someone you care about is hurting, and not being able to do anything :'(

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    18 years ago

    Being betrayed and stabbed in the back by a best friend.
    And feeling so alone that you don't know what to do anymore.

  • Tara Kay
    18 years ago

    knowing that whoever you turn to you cannot trust. loads of my friends betrayed my trust. It hurts.

  • hell*was*full*so*im*back
    18 years ago

    to know that someone dies every 3 seconds
    and to wonder what 3 seconds your best friend with cancer will die in

  • Matthew A.
    18 years ago

    Its every 8 seconds somebody dies..

  • Forsaken Redeemer
    18 years ago

    seeing someone you care about, friend, realtive, anyone, in pain and knowing that there is absolutely nothing you can do to help them and that things will only get worse

    Forsaken Redeemer
    xXx

  • Hello Life
    18 years ago

    feeling alone in a room full of people.

    finally admitting what you could never bring yourself to accept.

    finding out that a friend has killed themselves and knowing that you are going to spend you're life wondering 'what if . . . '

    what if you had spent that night with them?
    what if you had called?
    what if you had told them you loved them?
    what if you could have stopped this?

    all my soul to Raymond 'Rainman' Wallis x

  • Avrii Monrielle
    18 years ago

    Everything.

    But more specifically:

    Knowing I caused some of the biggest problems
    Regret
    Knowing I could have done something to save them
    Knowing I should have stopped them
    And not getting heard

    Not to mention a large list, but I won't go on in fear of getting depressed.

  • JL
    18 years ago

    knowing somethings wrong with your closest friend but they don't trust you enough to tell you whats wrong.
    Knowing its your fault your best friend was killed.
    Hearing someone break down and you can't do anything because they're too far away.

  • chfj4
    18 years ago

    Finding you're little brother dead......knowing that his killer is still alive, allowed to vote, have rights, eat, drink, watch tv, socialise, go to the gym all the while in prison enjoying his life.....thats what hurts the most (in my opinion anyway)

  • aaron 1 remo
    18 years ago

    getting kicked really hard in the nuts oooowww!

  • Katie
    18 years ago

    Losing somone before they are even really gone. And then asking yourself if they were ever there at all.

  • *~Emma~*
    18 years ago

    giving up the one you truly love, then wanting them back soo bad...but they just wont forgive you! and now they are with someone new (your friend)

  • clickityclack
    18 years ago

    Having ur heart broken....or at least thats the worst thing ive gonna through so far.

  • Unforgiven Retniap doolb
    18 years ago

    you know what redstalker your right why are you in this disscussion if your not serious about do us all a favor and please change you attittude or leave

    anyways

    ........when your mother abused you mentally+ physically then she goes missing.

  • Angie
    18 years ago

    Knowing that i'm a mistake.

    Feeling alone on a room full of people.

    Having your friends ditch you purposely, being alone.

    ~Luvz~
    ~Chica~

  • Once an Angel
    18 years ago

    Guys give redstalker a break, no one is perfect. Anyway what hurts the most wow that is a hard question:

    Watching your best friend travel down a self distructive road and she doesn't even see it and won't listen when I tell her.

    Seeing my ex so upest and lonely everyday, wishing he would let me back into his life so I could help him, cuz I know I can.

    Being second best to a perfect, sexy, smart, blonde, older sister, never being good enough.

    Yeah, realizing that you tried to kill yourself, and then trying to understand how you got so messed up in life.

    -Tainted Mikochan

  • Unforgiven Retniap doolb
    18 years ago

    I'm not trying to really put down redstalker its just that it sometimes really gets to me when people put stupid stuff in a bunch of the disscusions and never put anything serious

  • xx5OUL
    18 years ago

    what hurts the most...

    is knowing and being close to people for almost a decade then being taken for granted by them

    just taking bull from the one you love because you know that you'd want them to do that for them too.

    keeping everything all inside and smile and pretend like everything's okay...

    that collasping feeling you get in your chest after he tells you that he cheated on you

  • Little Dot
    18 years ago

    I would have to say when the one you love doesn't even want to know you.

  • AGirlWorthFightingFor
    18 years ago

    knowing that the only person who said the words "I love you" to your face was the same person who tried to rape you. that eats me up inside every day. still.

  • nobody truly knows me
    18 years ago

    knowing that someone you've loved your whole life (and thoght loved you back) doesn't love you. it hurts so much.

  • DeathsRose
    18 years ago

    Telling your best friend you love him and having him tell you that he really likes you but only as a best friend because thats all it can be because he has a girlfriend that he is in love with, but if he wasn't with her he'd love you the same way you love him

  • Sing me another sad song
    18 years ago

    what hurts me most? well its the fact that im slowly driving myself insane, with all my depressed and scared feeling locked up in side, its har. i act all happy and bubbly in school , and im not not at all... i hate this way i hate everything about me, i just wanna go freaken die cause all this crap

    ~JeZabelz

  • Truest Lies
    18 years ago

    Seeing your dog lying there, writhing in agony, and not being able to do anything, not even being allowed to hold her in her pain.
    That hurts the most.

  • Natasha
    18 years ago

    having the word bitch carved into your back and everytime he comes back another sigarete burn around it.

  • kirsty
    18 years ago

    watching ur dad slowly get worse and not actually seeing it! thinking he'l get better anyday soon. how wrong was i. then having 2 kiss my hero goodbye for the first time!!!!

  • Puerto_Rican_Chick
    18 years ago

    what hurts the most:

    having your boyfriend telling you sometimes he wishz to be single again.

    in a world full of millions of people, yet u feel so alone.

    knowing you've only had two best friends your whole life and only one you think you can trust.

    your parents not trusting you.

    having your parent not let you go out and have a social life.

    knowing im always gonna hurt.

    knowing ones heart is forever broken.

    knowing crying doesnt fix anything, yet i still do.

    having people not take the time to get to know you, but saying they dont like you.

    telling your "best friend" something so secretive and then she tells the whole school.

    knowing that the hate that goes around has your name some where in it, although you're not even involved.

    having your mom try to kill herself and your sister calling to say it was all my fault.

    knowing a family member needs help, but not having a way to help.

    falling in love with a guy that soon breaks up with me cause he didnt think i loved him. i kept telling him, i lost hope, moved on a fell in love with another guy. he comes back to me saying that he believes me now and when i said no to breaking up with my current boyfriend to go to him, he killed him self.
    i feel so guilty.

    wondering what could you have done to change an outcome of a choice you made.

    wondering what if...?

  • pseudo
    18 years ago

    what hurts the most for me is having my best friend move 8 hours away and have him forget about me after he said he wouldn't

    trying to fill the emptiness

    having your friend reject you becuz you not cool enough anymore

    having your parents care more about money than you....

  • stephanie18
    18 years ago

    watching someone you love so much hook up with other girls. having him say that you are "to attached" to him.