Too much help

  • Blaine
    18 years ago

    I'm a single mom and the thing is I love my family very much but they are stepping in to much on how I should raise my son. Ive tried to be nice and asked them to back off a little bit but they just keep telling me what and how to do things even the simplest things as how often to feed him and what to feed him. Any advise on how to get them to back off a little with out being mean?

  • La La
    18 years ago

    well im only 14 yrs old...so what do i know?? hehe..no, but i understand what youre saying (even though i am NOT a mommy lol) my sister & brother both got pregnant young..& theyre still here so ive heard everything that goes on..my mom is always helping them, but i know that they get kind of mad when she tries to tell them what to do, but all i can say is let them know you appreciate theyre help & that theyre so concerned about your son..(lol)..but that YOURE the mom here and it wouldnt hurt to have them give you their opinions, but at the end of the day, hes your son & whatever you decide to do, you will do. lol...i may not be much help here..but i hope u find better advice than this..lol. take care!

  • Blaine
    18 years ago

    Its not that i dont take their advise or listen to what they have to say I do and i am very appricitative of all of it I guess I didnt word my ? right what I would like to know is how to get them to respect some of my decesions more and to begin to belive in me as a parent.