Advice lady...

lol ok, I'm well known for my work (where I live and with some of you familiar with me on this site) But anyway, I've noticed alot of ppl need someone to talk to, and ask advice or opinions or just to simply talk and let loose all their feelings. I'd like to let you know, that if you ever need someone, I'm here. If you want to talk on here over the boards so you can get my opinion/help and someone elses too, go right ahead, I'm on everyday fora few hours (at the very least!) so I can get back to you pretty quickly. But if it's more personal than feel free to take other steps to talking to me... Anywho friends and strangers, I'm here if you need me, Bless you all and good luck with everything- everyday.hehe. :)

I havnt got a problem that anyone can help me with.. but.... im sure that many people would love to just talk to someone who may not be able to give advice... but can sure listen to their problems and at least try to help...

All i can say is... I think you should carry on trying to help others =)

x~X~x

Ok, so im thinking of taking my dads gun off the wall and taking it into school, ive had enough of people there and i cant stop fighting the urges. What do I do?

lol okok, my bad my bad, you guys don't seem to believe me and I have become quite a joke in this section, but the night I was on here everyone seemed suicidal, and it just so happens that I care about others more than I care about myself and would rather help someone with their problems than worry 'bout my own. I ignore alot of stuff in my life, which is the reason I still haven't found myself, and it just so happens that helping other ppl is something I like to do. I didn't mean to sound the way I did tho, so my bad - I didn't mean to sound like I was a therapist or professional and the only one you can talk to. I was simply offering my assistance to a place that seems to be filled with lost and depressed ppl.

You can never really help others until you help yourself. I've learned that. I used to be like you. But eventually, you run yourself straight into the damn ground (by the way if anyone cares my cat just scared the crap outta me :D) Anyway, yes I'm sure you can give advice to people, that will help them in their situation sometimes even...And I'm sure you'll be able to ignore your own problems and emotions oh so perfectly for a long time. But things don't last forever and the day you crazh you're not going to be able to help anyone, not even yourself. So forget others for a while, its not selfish, its self preservation. Focus on the you. If in the future you still really want to help people, become a counsellor, or a psychiatrist, some people will respect you more if you have credentials. And if you don't want to be a professional, come back here...Trust me there'll be someone here, possibly the same people, with problems for you to fix. Good luck
~*Ley*~

Well I really admire what you are trying to do, I think it was a very nice gesture. I guess people just don't appreciate it. I think that helping other people can often help you to help yourself. Well done for trying anyways.
Good luck in all your endeavours.
*VioletRaven*

Alright, steph, here goes.

How do you get over the trauma of moving home?

You see, I grew up in this one house where I had three cats that I loved with all my hearts, and they died. Then I had to move, but I was quite angry that I had to leave all those precious memories behind. Now I moved again, into a house that although I didn't really like it at first, I learnt to love.
About a month after I scrawled Home Sweet Home on the wall out of just joy at living there, we moved again.
It's quite a classy, roomy apartment, and I loved the view. It has also helped me get over my vertigo.

Now I have to move again, to a TINY place.
Of course, going from a luxuriously large house to a small flat is quite a change in itself, plus my family is always having arguments and making me feel bad.
I'm not complaining, because we will save a lot of money, and after we decorate and renovate the flat it will be a good investment for my dad's business, but it's the kind of tiny place where you can't just find a quiet place to cry, or meditate, or rest. You can't really get away from everyone else's troubles.

This is a chance for us to share and become more like a family, my dad says, but quite frankly, I'm tired of everyones bickering, de-motivation and divorce threats.

Any advice?

-beth

stephie? Come on...

steph, as sweet as it is that you want to help people, i can't over look the fact that it's just a little silly. no offense to you, but usually alot of people, including those on this site tend to believe that no one can help them until they've lived in thier shoes, and lets face it. none of us here can say we've "been there and done that" and actaully mean it. now duirng a a road block in someones life, sure they want advice...but they need someone to listen to them, and thats what you can do. and im assuming that why you titled this forum advice lady...because you want to help. good for you, you have a kind heart dont forget that, and dont ever change.

-dominique