jealous friend ...

  • *~Emma~*
    18 years ago

    what ever happens, just remember boyfriends come and go...but friends will be there forever!

    on the other hand, dont give up true happiness, just try and talk to her and see if she understands?

  • Torn
    18 years ago

    Just dont mention him to her as much..dotn rub it in like Taylor said.
    I dont think that it's anythign personal from her point of view..she just wishes to have wat you have.
    Good luck with it all
    xoxo

  • ~*Ley*~
    18 years ago

    The mere fact that she is jealous shows that she is extremely happy for you. Unless she is being malicious about it, I'm pretty sure she thinks it's awesome. She just envy's your happiness. She may get sad when you mention him, yea, that's pretty normal in fact. The fact that she told you shows she trusts you enough to respect her feelings and not mention him as much. I'm not saying never utter his name in her presence, but you don't need to talk about how happy you are with him, because she is fully aware of it.
    ~*Ley*~

  • Natasha
    18 years ago

    Well I don't think you should be hiding the fact that you have the "Boy" seeing as she one day will have one to and will be doing exactly the same.
    What you should not do, is keep going on about him, or spend less time with her.
    I think she is happy for you and therefor envious of the fact that you are happy with this guy.
    Just be open, but not to open if you know what I mean.
    I don't think she is really jealous, more envious which is understandable. We all envy people who seem to have it all, or seem to have more then we do.
    But she is your friend, she will also have a guy and you should just keep it that way. But in the meantime... just hang out together, and try not to keep on the boy subject.

  • DeAnna
    18 years ago

    omg.. this is the exact same thing i'm dealing with right now.. that's totally crazy, and me and my best friend have just had a huge fight, although we are over it now.. but there's still some suspense with her about my boy friend, who makes me happier than i have ever been in my entire life, and that's not an exaggeration.... but i don't know what to do right now either... just trust both of them that they won't hurt me because of eachother, i guess....

  • alwaysremeniceus
    18 years ago

    i think you should try not to talk to her about your boyfriend too much, and also share the difficulties you and him have sometimes?? to show her that its not perfect... two people have to work together to overcome these problems and grow up together,
    and i think, thats what makes a relationship successful even if it might not be a long one.

  • La La
    18 years ago

    i think you should talk to her about it..you know, just ask her to be open with you and tell you how she really feels deep down about everything...and also let her know that if she was YOU..she would be doing the same thing you were doing, you know? you cant help but talk about this guy whos soo amazing! lol but at the same time, youre not trying to make her jealous..because seriously, EVERY girl talks alot about a guy they like soo much!..but since you know already thats its making her sad, talk about how you can work this out because shes suppose to be your best friend..you want to be able to tell her everything right? -best wishes-