Scared To Fall

Hey people, heres my dilema. I'm with a guy...who i'm in love with like ... majorly. Hes my dream guy..he really is. We've been together now for nearly 2 years now its just i've found i still get shy around him, we don't have the best communication and we're trying to work on it, i'm just finding it difficult to say some things. Its like I'm scared to let him know how i really truly feel, incase he doesn't feel the same way or doesn't know how to react. Can anybody suggest how i get over this? I've written it in letters, online, poetry, texts, but when it comes to over the phone or face to face, i panic..and hide my true feelings for him. :-( But i do love him... i really do.

life involves taking a lot of risks and telling him how you feel is just one of them. just think of how great youll feel if he tells you he feels the same

yeh i guess, hopefully as time passes, i'l be able to let him know, thank you for your advice :)

I agree with Ele. The willingness to take some risks is one of the things that make our lives meaningful.

Your fear that if you tell him you love him, he might not have the same feelings for you doesn't seem very reasonable. If you have been with this guy for 2 years, wouldn't it be assumed that he is in love with you? Otherwise why would he continue in a relationship for that long?

...And if you are afraid that he may not know how to react, you could run a sort of trial balloon by asking him, "What would you say if I were to tell you that I really do love you."

You said you guys have been dating for two years eh?

Hunny the feelings amongst the two of you should defintely be understood you guys are probably completely head over heels with each other. WHATS THE PROBLEM two years and you cant even express how you feel. hunny you got it badd. just tell him and get it over with. it will break the "shy" barrier you have placed around yourself. of course hes gonna feel the same way

it takes a lot of work to keep in a relationship for two years. JUST LET IT OUT BABE!

go out on a limb and be spontaeous!!

aww wow i love you all!!! :-) this advice is great it really is..im not sure why im so "afraid" but yeh, i am really head over heels, he still gives me butterflies lol

slip him a poem, with a hidden meaning and the background is a watercolor of ur best image of the both of you

iv done poems and everything before, i want to tell him face to face.