Today sucks

I have never let myself get close to someone cause i was always afraid i would get hurt...reasons behind that...but ive finally gotten to the point where i let a select people in...ive only let two in...and well my best friend will always be there for me and i know that...but i got really close to this guy....he was really close to my best friend too...and now hes moving...like he doesnt even care....and its his choice...not his parents *he lives at his dads house*hes moving back with his mom* and now im afraid i will never be able to let anyone in again since i trusted him and he let me down....has anyone else had this happen

I think you're overreacting just a tad, which is normal. Does this guy have msn or some sort of email to keep in contact with him? Just because he is moving away does not mean that you will never be able to talk to him again.
Also, he may not want to leave you, but it may be best for him to move. I think you are being a bit selfish. When people move they are not doing it on purpose to hurt someone. He wants to move, its not a direct assault against you.
I'd feel pretty damn sad, but I don't think id think he was letting me down. But I'm not you, and I'm just saying you don't need to think of it that way, beucase tahts not what he's doing. Its okay to let people in. And life is full of let downs, you will always get hurt, whether or not you let people in, but if you have people there for you, it'd be a lot easier.
~*Ley*~

Well this problem comes up alot at school and yes i do agree with ley on some parts but still it does have affect on your feelings. But the email is a great idea or get his moms address. my mom is changing me to a charter school and i feel like i am losing everything because i just lost my dad a week ago to dibeties. and i am afriad to leave my friends. i will live in the same place just go farther away everyday for school. she told me " you never loss a friend just because you do not talk or see each other everyday " which of course is true but i do understand how you feel just it is nothing you can change from the sound of it so just do not loss that contact with him. and don't he still have to come see his dad as well? ok well i hope things work out for you

Ashley

you know what, I dont think your over reacting at all, I knowyou have your reasons as i have mine, and I'm in a situation somewhat like that. it's not tht he's moving, he's just.... well lets not get into it, I just wanted to let you know that it happens to everyone, even those who don't let themselves get too attached. It may seem like we will never be able to let anyone else in, but I think that having something like that happen is meant to show us that we're stronger than we think. After that happens, you will get over it and you will want to let someone in again. Taking chances is a big part of life, and there's a quote that I like, "it's better to die on your feet than live on ur knees" which is basically saying live your life, don't beg for mercy. You're given one chance, and you should get to see all you can, understand what you want, and experience all sorts of things.... I know this might not help much, but you'll see I promise you things will get better. Keep happy, and good luck with everything.