Samantha
18 years ago
my boyfriend and i have been going out for about nine months now and all of the sudden we just like stopped talking... i dunno what i did but i cant talk to him about it because whenever i try calling him he says hes at work or hes going to bed and i dunno... i love him so much and i dont want to lose him.... any ideas on how i can fix this? |
Tara Kay
18 years ago
i think you should call him and make him talk, tell him how u feel, if ur love was ver meant to last then it should be easy. |
Samantha
18 years ago
how do i make him talk... i dunno i just miss talking to him sooo much.. he made me soo happy and i dont want him to be mad at me but i do want him to understand how i feel... but i dunno like i said he never has time to talk to me on the phone anymore and i cant talk to him at school because we both go to different schools... but thats never been a poblem before cuz we always taked on the phone... i dunno... im sooo confused.... help!!!!! |
Tara Kay
18 years ago
If there is somethin there then you can work it out. |
Lydia O
18 years ago
Just ask him, in a message, letter or whatever, to be honest and to level with you about what's going on. You can hope for the best but you need to be prepared for the worst. He may want to break up but doesn't have the courage to tell you. Or he may think he is avoiding hurting you this way. Or he may be faced with distractions or problems that have nothing to do with you. But if he can't bring himself to communicate honestly with you, there's not a lot of hope to go on. |
firexflys
18 years ago
well 9 months hun u need to sit that man dow and make him talk to you dont be mean or anything but thats 9 months of you life and his for that matter if he's acting strange theres a reason and as what it is and try and work through it like show up to his house or somthing if he gets mad o well there's already somthing wrong. and if you just show up some where he cant have a was to get out of it. ... |