scarf?

ok um...
im just kind of in a dilemma,
my boyfriend will be leaving for university this summer and his birthday is coming in less than a month,
i'm making him a scarf and i'm not sure if i should give it to him since i know it will hurt a lot when he does leave and we're not even sure if we might stay together even though he has to leave,
if we don't stay together and i give it to him, it might be a reminder of a scar?
but i really want to give it to him 'cuase afterall, its a little bit of warmth i put together for him?

Well I personally know that it is hard deciding that... But I think maybe you should give it to him, because as it might be a reminder of a scar, it may also be a reminder of the love you share. It'll remind him of you, and the times you shared with him and the time you took to make him that scarf, telling him that he really is alot to you. It's always important to feel loved. And lets face it, most people never forget their first love, strongest love or highschool love... Wow I think I'm going really farwith this love thing, as I always do> but anyway, I think you should give it to him... If it hurts him too much he'll put it away for reminder later. And if it doesn't hurt him because it's a reminder ofyou, than... all is good! lol. Greatest luck to you :)

i really want to but... its like our love is like dark chocolate, bitter sweet, never only sweet, bitter always comes along

we feel this weird pain all the time, its hard to describe, its pain, and fear? normally i won't tell him the pain i feel and i try to be as happy as i can, but once or twice a week i know he's feeling a lot of pain... which i guess hurts me even more, 'cause theres not much i can do to help

even though it seems kind of rare to some people for a relationship like this to happen in high school maybe?? i want him to be reminded that someone always loves him no matter what, but anyone would want the one they love to be happy and not suffer from any pain at all