Stupid Questionnn AGAIN

Hi hi its me :) Hehe okeh anywayss

Well todeh this guy I like well, at lunchtime i was sitting at this table reading/talking with my friends and he was at team practice and then his locker was like beside where i wass sitting at the table and he got his backpack and then he went and put down his backpack he started to tie his shoes at the table but like away from me not right in front of me but not too far away either and then he was standing there tying his shoes for about ummm like 5minutes..:P And then we went to class and we had to do this project thing and he was working on his at the lab station and it was right behind my desk and i was in my desk talking/working with my friend and he'd quietly be standing working on his project thing but when I got up to go see something somewhere or something he'd talk to the people around him but then I'd come back and he wouldnt say a word..and then we went to another class and we had to wait for the teacher to come so he was standing in front of the door and he was facing the inside of the classroom and I came and I stood behind him but not close, but not far either and he went and face to his left which was sideways to me...and he looked every except at meh and he usually looks anywhere except at me and when we do dance in gym or something he'd like never look me in the eye and i'd never look him in the eye either but yeaaah...

Sorry to make this long but I'm so confused i cant talk to him and tell him i like him and I just cant tell him. period. I need to know if he likes meh first and I cantt ask either grr,
HEEEEELPPPPPPPP

Doesss he like me could he like me what are signs a boy likes youu ??

He could like you. Some guys are shy like that and don't admit it. There are different signs for different guys. Some guys stare at you and try to get your attention. Others are shy and try to be near you and get you to notice them but at the same time are shy. You need to figure out how he feels. There is a big possibility he likes you. If you're to scared to find out, get a friend to. Start up a conversation with him or something. Don't ignore the fact that you like him and he might like you. If you try to find out from other people then you can try and be more open when you are around him. Like i said before he probably does like you ^_^. Hope that helped.....good luck!

“Does he like me; could he like me; what are signs a boy likes you?”

Déjà Vu ;-)

Okay. Let’s say that I was able to tell you with certainty that the guy you like, let’s call him “X,” really does like you beyond all doubt. And to make it even more credible, CNN, CBC, BBC and the AP have been reporting all day long that “X likes BeautifulDisaster.” Even with all that positive feedback, how would it possibly help you if you can’t get a line of communication started with X?

By now it is apparent, or should be apparent that he is not going to be the one to take the initiative. He’s too shy or whatever. But whatever it is, you need to accept it. People just are what they are and we can’t change anyone. We have to accept them just as they are, no matter how much we might wish they could be different. Besides, if X was different and tended to be outgoing and aggressive instead of shy, it is likely that he would lose the appeal he has for you.

There is no need to go up to him and bluntly tell him you like him. You ONLY need to get some communication started. ANY conversation. How hard is that? And, from all you describe, he’ll probably welcome it along with the brightness of your smile and the gleam in your eyes.

Really, we all face situations from time to time that make us nervous or fearful. And that includes myself, you know, Ms. Confidence. I faced a situation last week where I had an enormous amount of risk riding on the outcome. And this was a totally new type of endeavor for me, something I had never done before. But in this case there was so much at stake that I wasn’t sure whether I was going to be able to face the person I had to meet without trembling or showing obvious signs of fear and nervousness. I had the urge to just postpone it until after New Years. In times like this, I think everyone just needs to find a source of inspiration. This time, in addition to prayer, I turned to Dr. David Viscott. (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Viscott) His same words could apply equally as well to you.

"No one is coming to save you. You are your own salvation or your life is without merit. If you are waiting for someone to come along to save you, find a comfortable seat and be prepared to stay in it for a very long time".

“The only thing that stands between a person and what he or she wants from life is often merely the will to try it and the faith to believe that it is possible.”

“Never consider the possibility of failure – Dare to go forward. The fear of failure is the major reason for failure in life. Ask yourself this question as you proceed: "What is the worst possible thing that could happen if I go ahead?”

“The worst thing that one can do is to not try, to be aware of what one wants and not give in to it, to spend years in silent hurt wondering if something could have materialized -- and never knowing.”

And finally, one more from David Viscott: “To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides.”

That could ultimately be the reward for your effort and for the measure of courage it takes to succeed.

I'm still cheering for you. :-)

Aw thanks both of you for your advice :)

I know I need to start up some kind of conversation but whenever he's near me I become so stupid and I dont know what to say. I have always been a shy person, I dont talk to people I dont know well or people in particular. I am only talkative when I'm with my friends, and yet still I feel like I have to hide some part of me. It is really hard for me to imagine even talking to "X". :(
I dont know what he's like though, cause if he was a shy guy then I'd be able to tell but like he sits in my group in one of my classes and he talks to people who sit in other groups and to people in that same group but he doesent talk to me, I mean he'd be his old self like sing when he walks into the class and stuff even if I'm in the class but yet he'd never speak to me or say anything.
He kind of avoids being in my group or being my partner in things, like in gym class we do dance but he will never ask to be my partner, and ofcourse I'd never ask to be his :P. Today he had the chance to switch partners with any guy and he switched it with a guy who was in front of me not my partner. I dont know really, he sends me a lot of mixed signals and I'm tired of that Grr. :(