I don't know what's wrong...i can't take it anymore

I can't take it anymore. I see my ex in the halls everyday and i've been trying to get over him but i broke down crying today because i still love him. I can't help but look at him when he passes me in the hall. At lunch he cuddles with his new g/f and i feel like my heart is slowly being torn into pieces. I don't know what to do and my friends aren't helping. please tell me what i should do? I know it takes time to get over someone but it has gotten harder to get over him since i see him everyday. To make matters worse he hangs out with the same group of people as i do and his g/f sits infront of me in global and constantly talks about him. I'm so confused and nothing seems to work. I feel like if i were to sleep forever it would all end but i don't know....i just can't concentrate on things that are important because i'm focusing on everything else that is going lately.

hmm...
i can kind orf relate, but in my past experience, nothing officially happened?
crying is a way to let things out, get things straightened out,
i've been crying a lot in the past week too and going through problems with my boyfriend and started writing poems while i cry? i found another side of me, maybe that wiwll help you too?
i guess in the day the only advice i can tell you is try to ignore and stay away from them if you can? or just walk away whenever you're starting to feel uncomfortable...
it'll take a while to get over, or used to it, depending exactly how strong you are and exactly how much you love him :/

good luck?
hang in there, and maybe tell yourself that you'll always remenice every memory?? regardless if they're happy or not...

I'm sure what you're going through must be tough. If I were you I would try to get my mind away from him as much as possible. Don't listen to any music that's associated with the time you were with him. If you have any pictures of him, put them in hiding. And the same with any other reminders of him. I know you can't avoid him altogether but try not to pay as much attention to him. That may mean spending less time with your friends or finding some new friends or even spending some time in company with yourself and just being your own best friend. Maybe you can arrange to change your seat in global. And try to involve yourself in some activities that divert your attention from your ex.

You seem like a nice person and I'm sure that before long the right guy is going to come along for you. In the meantime you might want to read “How to Survive the Loss of a Love” by Peter McWilliams. It will at least help you to understand the healing process. It helped me when I was going through the loss of the person closest to me. It is now available free since it has been published on the internet at:

http://www.mcwilliams.com/books/books/sur/srtoc.htm

Best wishes ---Lydia

This must be so difficult for you...
I understand how hard it is to watch the person you love with someone else
It can break you...
But heres the thing
Dont think about whats right and wrong
Think about yourself
Be headstrong
This may take ages before you get over him...but as long as you stay strong...spend time with other people that matter...family and friends...
You'll realise how special they are to you
I had a nervous breakdown at 15
And i thought my world was over
It took months but after realising my family and friends were there
I made it through
Talk...it helps
good luck!!...p.m me if you want to talk more or add me on msn p.m me and ill give you my addy
Wish you all the best emy
xxxxxxxxxxxxx

Thanks so much. I know i'm 14 but it's just that it's the first guy i've ever felt this strongly about. I'll try some of these ideas out and see where it goes from there. Thank you so muc hyou all have helped a lot. Since he and i broke up every thing seems to be getting worse. I've gotten into huge arguments with some of my best friends and it seems as though it's backfiring on me.

well, know way to say this but we all feel like this sometime. I split with my ex two years ago, i still love him, i havent seen him for over a year and it hurts to thnk about him, but i will always love him. I am 18 and this is the only guy i ever loved. you just have to be strong.
best wishes
xxxxx
tara

awww..thanks tara. I'm trying really hard but it's difficult knowing everywhere i go i'm gonna see him. The only time i don't see him is on the weekend.

Yeah it is hard. I just am having trouble right now. Thanks and you're right i will find someone new. It's just hard to get over someone who you loved and remebering the things they said to you doesn't make it any better. I tried to ignore him today but he was messing around with me before class started. I mean he had cheese its and he gave me the box and then he said i stole it so he leaned over me and i got up and he basically chased me. He still acts like that and i don't know what to do about it.

that sucks