Stay or go?

  • Erika Lamorie
    18 years ago

    My boyfriend and I were dating for about 11 1/2 months. We broke up because he lies too much about doing drugs. Rite now, we are involved with each other, but don't have the lable *boy friend and girl friend*.. There's time I feel I should move on, but I love him too much to leave him. I know we can't be together, because I can't trust him, but I don't want our relationship to end. What should I do?

  • Tara Kay
    18 years ago

    Im no relationship expert. But here;s what i think. Trust is important in any relationship, without it it's not worth it. Me and my ex split nearlly 2 years ago, because i didnt trust him and he didnt trust me, i regret it because i still love him now, but to be honest i know it was for the best because it wouldnt have worked out. If he lies, then that isnt good, he's not worh the effort. Hope this helps.
    xxxxx
    tara

    you can email me Tichy_tara@msn.com
    xxxxx

  • LadyPearl
    18 years ago

    I agree, for a relationship to work, there has to be trust. Talk to him about how you really feel.

  • Bret Higgins
    18 years ago

    The answer is in your own question:

    I know we can't be together, because I can't trust him

    You know what to do, so do it now before things get worse. Maybe you'll be fortunate enough to be friends afterwards... either way you're doomed to a failure in this circumstance... best to admit it now and move one before things get to a point where you're too committed emotionally or by way of pregancy.

  • alwaysremeniceus
    18 years ago

    i guess sometimes you have to learn to trust?? there are times that me and my boyfriend feel insecure, but i trust him with all my heart