confused..

  • xღxBeckyxღx
    18 years ago

    help me..im confused. i love my boyfriend, i know i do, its just at the moment, i dunno...things don't seem like they were. we used to be great together, we still are, but lately, the times we've seen each other, iv gotten upset over something and then its been awkward..is it time to call us a day?..

  • xღxBeckyxღx
    18 years ago

    yeh i guess talking to him is the best answer...i shall..thanks :)

  • alwaysremeniceus
    18 years ago

    you know what?? no matter how hard things are, if you love him, even if you're feeling weak, don't ever give up, and keep trying :) me and my boyfriend are going through really hard time too, he got in a really bad car accident and had 2 surgeries, a week after the doctors thought he might have brain cancer, he's slowly pushing me away but tonight they found out hes ok, i'm really happy about it but hes still not talking to me... i guess thats another example showing exactly how important communication is in a relationship?

  • xღxBeckyxღx
    18 years ago

    yeh i guess...i know i do love my boyfriend..and i dont wanna give up..i just get tired sometimes but i know that if i do give up on him, on us then i'll end up regretting..and i do love him...

  • alwaysremeniceus
    18 years ago

    no matter how tired you are, just don't cave in ok?? you know that he doesn't want you to give up either... he wouldn't be happy then... and i think other than his safety next thing thats most important to you is his happiness... and giving up will not make him happier! stay strong :)... i know what you mean by tired though... i'm so tired after my boyfriends been pushing me away, not talking to him, everytime i close my eyes right now is that moment when he glanced at me the other night... we didn't talk or anything, he just turned around and looked at me while sitting with his friends... everytime i close my eyes i feel like im getting stabbed, knowing, and actually seeing the pain and fear he's in, and i can't do anything, even if i can, hes not letting me...

    just remember one thing, when you feel tired, try to take a break and don't stress yourself if you don't have to... when you have to.... it only gets worst... trust me...