Is he...?

Well...ok...i am dating this guy who is totally amazing but when we first started dating we got to talking one day and he mentioned that before i came along, there ''kinda was this other girl'' who he was ''kinda dating'' and now i dont know if he is still ''kinda dating'' this person behind my back. i have no reason to suspect any of this but i do. i dont know if it is just because of my past relationships or what...what should i do and why do i feel like this???

i talked to him and found out that he has been going over to her house after he leaves here. he says he is jsut friends with her mom and he has known this girl for a long time but he doesnt have any kind of relationship with her but her mom wants to hook them up...how do i talk to my guy and tell him how i feel with out losing him.

I think you should talk to your man!
You have the right to know.
If he do date behind your back. Then treats you like you wasn't worth a thing. If I where you then I should kick him between his legs =) (but only if he were dating that girl behind you back)

hugs

And by the way I feel so sorry for you =(

hey everyone...thanks for the help...i will take your advice...and i will let you know what happens!!!
lots of love,
dawn

my man has not been answering my q's and he hasnt been coming around or calling like he used to...can anyone think of any ways for me to start a convo about this with my man???