What's really wrong??.....

ok so i got in a really messed up fight with brandy. well in biology she had to do an assignment to make babies (well not literally..lol) and so she decided to do one with me! so like she drew up the baby and she showed me the picture, i SMILED, not laughed, and i thought hey thats what our kid could actually look like someday if we had some! and she thought i was laughing and she got SOOOO mad at me, and i explained but she wont listen, that ENTIRE day, she kept sayin to me "i dont want to talk to you you think our baby is ugly" before 5th hour (last hour of the day) i went up to her cuz she was talkin to ash and some other girl and i put my hands on her face and wa slike talk to me baby! and she didnt say anythin to me so i was like ok i give up!! i've tried ALL day whats the point now if you wont even listen to me/! so i went into my class and she walked in, so..knowing me not being able to stay mad at her for long...i got up and talked to her and shes like i dont want to talk to you you think our baby is ugly!!! so like we got in an argument over it and so like she started walking away and i grabbed her and hugged her but she didnt hug back, so like i got really upset (not like mad but sad) and after school i tried talkin to her and before she got on her bus she kept pushing me away and was like i dont want to talk to you so i just was kinda like fine whatever! so i just walked away without hugging her or looking at her or kissing her, so like she called me later that day and all she called me for was to yell at me being like i dont want to talk to you you think our baby is ugly!!! (her sister even got annoyed) and so then she had to leave to salt lake so i haven't talked to her sine 3 yesterday because she had a party today and had to go to salt lake yesterday. and it's not her time of the month (according to her that was 2 weeks ago) so i dont know...any help please??

You seems a little obsessed in my opinion, like your not giving her enough space, maybe its more than an ugly babe thats bugging her. Perhaps ask her if thats the only she is upset about give her a bit of space to think and stuff and then go back and try talking to her, talking not hugging and kissing, just talking.

You know what, I don't think there's any way to help you. I think she blew it way out of proportion, laugh or smile it doesn't really matter does it? I mean, it's not like it's your actual baby... I suggest just giving her time to cool off, i'm sure when she gets back from salt lake she'll have forgotten bout it. If not, then talk to her calmly, or write her an email, something that will keep her calm about it, and explain to her you didn't mean it that way.... And even though I don't think you have anything to be sorry bout, apperantly she does - so say sorry..Sincerely... Other than that, I really don't know. The best of luck to you though!

i don't wanna offend you or anything..but what is up with the argument?? im sorry but thats so stupid to argue because she thought you were "laughing" at the "baby" i'm not meaning this to offend but thats a really petty argument. give her time to cool off and realize how stupid the argument is..when all it was was a misunderstanding that has blow way out of proportion..

*blown

give her time to calm down... then talk to her.. talk to her friends or get someone to talk to her about it? but don't force or pressure her too much...