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ok well i have been dateing this guy on and off for 8 months not b/c of us but my parents have caused us so many problems and still are they say i am too young for a serious relationship ( iam 17) they say they dont think he;s right for me and since my parents dont like him no one else in my family does. they have broken us up once and are trying again after telling us that we are allowed to date. now this is the thing we love eachother very much so he told me once he wants me to be his wife some day. but my parents have been messing with us and makeing us stress so much he says he can deal with my parents rules which means seeing eachother 3 times a month, and he has told me not to give up on him, but do i have the right too ask this of him ? and do i have the right to not listen to my parents they say i dont trust or respect them because i dont break up with him. idk what to do help plz if you can

You know what, if your parents don't understand... Don't listen to them, I mean not to sound like too much of a rebel, but sometimes that's just the way it is. Usually parents know best, but not when it comes to love -when it comes to love they try very very hard to protect their children (especially girls) no matter what the case, and are just basicaly too paranoid for anyones own good... And it's not like your asking your boyfriend to do this,he knows you have no choice, if he's not giving up on you, then Don't You Dare give up on yourself! That's asking much more of him in the long run. Don't let your parents ruin something you think is true. It's your future, your love and your feelings. No one can tell you what's best except you this time.

steph i guess your righ tand i have talked to my boyfriend and he said that he's nto going to let my parents take me away and asked me not to give up so i am do my best and deal with it as long as he can i can as long as he wants to fight i am willing to fight too. thanks so much