Help?

I was supposidly in love with my ex.

We broke up a while ago.

About 3 months later we start talking again. He tells me he's getting feelings for me again and then he hooks up with my friend and tells her he's getting feelings for her too. He kept going back and forth from me to her. I really like him REALLY REALLY. We hung out today and he was hitting on me and making moves on me and stuff. Later he calls me and says we should stop talking cause he gets in the way of me and my friend. I say that's my problem and maybe he's just getting in the way cause he keeps going back and forth between us. He keeps talking to her so obviously it was a lie that he stopped talking to me cause he didn't wanna get in the way between us.

I dunno what to do. He keeps hurting me, this isn't the first time. But it's just.. I have to go back everytime even if I know it's the wrong thing.

I just don't know what to do anymore.. I wanna be with him.

Hhmm, darling I’m going to be blunt. You’re young, he is young. At this age, men are currently looking for verity, the male hormones are interested in spreading their seed to as many females as possible, to sustain their gene pool. That’s it in a scientific level I guess. Meaning, men dont know what they want, they want a lil bit everything. Men mature slower then females, and females are willing to settle down far before a normal male is. Currently he is looking for what he likes. Don’t indulge or condone it though. Don’t go back with him even if he asks, give him time to experiment, give him time to shop really. After awhile (and I mean awhile) if you still have feelings for him, and if he is interested in you, then give it a shot, but right now, don’t even give him a second glance. But until then, don’t wait for him, go off and do your own thing, forget about him. I know its hard, but that is the only real way you will find out if he cares for you, and likewise.

Thanks..
Considering he's 15 and his hormones are blah you're probably right

I think you should find somebody else, and I know it will be hard to forget about him, but that relationship is really harmful. You should try to think about other things so you won't think about him. He's just playing with you and your friend.

XoXo

Ugh I was talking to him yesterday and he said we should stop talking- I asked why and he said it was because he didn't wanna get in the way of me and my friends friendship. Really it was because he decided to be with her. That pisses me off because he was leading me on. He was raising my hopes up.

I called him and told him that I hate the way he just plays with my heart and he's like "w/e I'll call you back tomorrow" He has still yet to call.

I can't stand him or my friend. She should know how much I care for him and she's treating me like shit. Just goes to show you must friendships are fake.