Please give me an advice...

dont touch what is not meant to be yours. its difficult, yes but not going to work. a ruined friendship over something that may not last long if at all. not worth it. go to a club. find the hottest chiks there and fall for her. anything to think otherwise of this girl. best of luck

Heres my advice... You say in your post that this guy is a reallly good friend of yours well..

Put yourself in your freinds shoes.. imagine your with this girl and everything is perfect etc and then some guy... a friend comes along and steals her. How would you feel?

Cos those feelings are goona be perty similar to your mates feelings.

Id say... try to not think of her. dont rush out and randomly get a gf... i dont think that would work.

Just try to stay away and DONT GIVE IN TO TEMPTATION

well... for one thing.. don't touch her.. if you can't be together, you can be beside her, as a friend... its kind of a bad situation to be in for friends to like a same person,, not to mention love...
and somehow i think, she can't love 2 people at the same time.. well.. its possible but not love love... theres probably one person she loves more, and she needs to figure that out and follow her heart...

if you go out just to pick up any girl to be your girlfriend, would you really be happy? would she be happy?

I suggest you talk to her and tell her that you respect her feelings and tell her that the most important thing to you is that she is happy, but she's putting you in a very uncomfortable position.

It's possible if not probable that she has feelings for you both, but it is rather unlikely that these feelings are completely equal. She really needs to look inside herself and realize this and make a decision in terms of who she has stronger feelings for.

I've been in a similar position as her, and it sucks a lot, so give her time, but be firm in trying to get her to understand that she needs to stop being so ambivalent.

Well. Difficult situation...

Lets look at your options.

Gurl chooses you, you lose your best friend.
Gurl chooses boyfriend, you'll never really be with her.
or, have both, with the gurl you love just as a friend?

Lets think: Are you willing to lose your best friend for the gurl you love? Or are you willing to sacrifice your feelings for her for now, and leave them to it?
Would you be able to live knowing that the gurl you love chose your best friend over you?

OK. Just getting that clear... What do you feel more strongly about? Deep down, what do you believe is the right answer? Ask yourself these questions, try and find the answer..

Just know, that everything happens for a reason. and that Love is Complicated.

What you choose to do in the end is your decision... I hope everything works out okay.

Laterz,
Shirlz