why does it always happen this way?

Every time i love someone they always end up loving someone else. But even though they do i still stay friends with them, and i'm there for them, and i help them when they have problems or when they're sad or having a bad day... i always do everything i can. And it always comes up that they a have a problem with their girlfriend and i'm the one that always ends up helping him... I have to stand there reminding him how much he loves her and how much she loves him when i love him too... I have to go the entire time knowing he doesn't love me. And everytime i get over it and move on something happens that makes me love him all over again... and don't say "just get over it, or move on" because i'm already trying. and i already know i have to get over it and move on.

Hey Andrew, its good to see another male who knows these pains. Its normally only females who seem to care, and sometimes I believe I'm the only male in this world who seems to give a shit.

IN situations liek this darling you kind of just have to be who you are. If you stay friends with them, you need to understand, and accept that you will be hurting. If their frriendship is worth that to you, then by all means, continue.

well thanks for your advice =)