to be happy or sad?

my best friend just got married on tuesday the 20th. I am really happy for her, but her wedding day falls on a day that marks on year to the day when me n my ex first said I love you. imm happy but it also makes me sad?!!?! should i be?

by next year i reckon youll have forgotton about your ex. youre only young, its a waste of time to still be thinking about your exs, therell plenty of other guys so id just make that day about your friends wedding and nothing else. but thats just my opinion, if it makes you really sad i guess you cant help it

just be happy for your friend .. try think about your future rather than your past

be happy for your friend...
remenice the happy things,
try to forget the sad things in the past if you've tried to make things better, but it didnt work...

I was going to write something really sour, but I decided to delete it. You know how you should be feeling, but you posted this here so that you could get 1) Sympathy or 2) Some reassurance that your selfishness is justified. Be happy for your friend, come on.

2) Yeah, it's hard when a day rolls around that held significance for you, but it's just a day. It's just a time. Time is rather rigid to hold the capacity of such an abstract emotion. Sure, you can miss your ex today, but there is no way that it should have ANY power whatsoever of how you act on your friend's special day.

Suck it up for a minute and be there for her.
Then you can break out the cookie dough ice cream when you get home.

i think ...alot ...but really i think your cool if you are just you