I hAvE mAdE mY dEcIsIoN!!

Im 15...& i think my b-f has finally proved to me that i meen more to him then just sex so i think im going to do it...i truley hope that i dont have regrets...im kinda scared but i trust that he wont hurt me...but i have always been so afraid of after we do it, that he would leave me so thats why he had to prove that i mean more to him then that...but yeh lol we've been together for 7 months do u think thats long enuf??

Then what is, Sunny.
This is the forum of love and romance, and she's talking about that...

In my opinion, it would be best to wait, because a lot of proof is deceiving, and he can change afterwards..
So be very careful. Take your time, and don't do anything brash.

Well, it sound like her boyfriend has proven to her that he loves her, so she's agreeing to sex.

But still, she has to be careful, because he could well have lied.

-beth

I can't give advice until I know what the alleged "proof" is. Please specify.

Oh shit, you're that Chris dude's girlfriend. You guys need to shut up and just talk to each other about this.

I have to agree with what the person above me has said. you're 15, physically you are not ready. a Woman who has sex before shes fully physically matured, has an inreased chance of cervix cancer. also your boyfriend is young, so he is subcontiously seeking sex, no true way of trusting him. you're both so young, neither of you can grasp the concept of real love, and by how you are acting, you yourself don't belive you're ready, and are looking for others to tell you you're ready.

No way are you ready for sex yet. I have a 15 year old son & I know he isn't ready. I suggest you listen to what the others said about being ready for a baby. I got pregnant the very first time I had sex. I was not 15 thank God. I really don't think you are ready. Take your time. Most teenage guys want sex more than they are willing to admit to you. Their hormones are going crazy...and sadly, most of them will move on to someone else not long afterward. I would strongly suggest you rethink your decision.

i think just the fact that you're asking here... you're not 100% ready for this...

you may laugh at this but.. i'm turning 16 in 5 days and i haven't even had my first kiss...

personally, i don't think teenage couples should have sex until both people are atleast 18 or almost turning 18... u might think its retarded but i realized that people can change a lot and start to find who they truely are in grade 11 and 12...

i'm not sure how i can make you think that.. but one things for sure; i've been changing and growing up a lot more and faster (mentally) ever since grade 11 started.. and its only been 3 months x.x

Well it's still illegal no matter what you do. Did he tell you he loved you by any chance?

It's not illegal unless her boyfriend is over the age of 18. The legal age of consent in the us and canada is 14.

Not anymore.... There is no legal age of "consent" anymore.

In U.S. you can consent to tounching at the age of 16 to others under the age of 18 and then 18 for sex. but anyways hunni. sometimes i think im ready and im 16 but theres always a small doubt so until the doubt is gone i wont do it.. it might be something to thin abotu

wow...i can't believe what i'm hearing...the girl is gonna do it either u want to or not..plus when u r in the MOMENT u somehow can't stop and u want more and if he proved that he loved u than...i say go 4 it...i lost mines when i was 13 and it was a mistake because now i found the person who i would have liked to lose it to...but trust ur feelings and talk to him about it...thats all i can say

Well everything has been basically said in the above posts. If your asking here if you should have sex or not, it means you are in no way ready. Besides 15 is way to young, no matter how he's proven this to you, you shouldn't. I mean at 15, sure girls and guys alike think of having sex and there ready for it, but you'll regret it later. Anyway thats just my opinion, Good luck with your decicion. Peace.
~Luvz~
~Chica~

I was with my gf 3 years before we did that...actually we started datin at 9 and 11 lol but yea trust..if your serious is a big issue...i'm not a trusting person..actually i'm losing trust in a lot of people...it's odd..cause their not doing anything..but yea..7 months..if you trust they won't f_ck ya over then go for it...i guess...your sexlife is of no concern to me but i'm bored and nobody's online