Tough Choice: College v. BF

Ok, so i've been dating my boyfriend for about a year. Pretty soon we have to decide on where we're going to go to college. I don't really want to go to an in-state school, and out-of-state tution is too much for him. I don't know if I should stay here with him and risk us spliting up and me regreting staying, or if I should leave and ruin a relationship that may have worked out. Now I know that I'm still in high school, and teens in love have no idea what they're talking about and all that stuff, but this is not a purely physcial relationship, and we have something most other relationships don't have. Well, I'd really like some advice, guidence, whatever. Thank you.

Hmm this is a really hard choice. I can’t really tell you for sure what the best thing to do is, only my personal belief. I understand you care for him, I understand he cares for you. But college means a lot. I would go to your preferred college, even if it means splitting with him. You guys can still have a relationship even if its long distances, if its not physical it should be a bit easier then most, if you truly care for him, and he cares for you, it should work out… thats my own personal opinion, only thing I can say for sure, is follow your heart.

maybe... he can find a school near the edges of the state and you can find a pretty good school close by? states aren't TOO big that it takes likew 5 days just to get across one... just hope you don't live near a lotta mountains x.x...
anyways.. just a thought? good luck :)

I would definately go to college.

do it for your boyfriend girl ,but only if he is great