do you ever stop hurting?

me and my boyfriend broke up about 2 months ago and i loved him so much and i do even now and i hurt so bad b/c everywhere i go i think of him and i still love him with all my heart, but the thing that hurts the most is that i know that i can never be with him again. he has someone else now and she is pregnant so he is not going to leave her. you no how you have that feeling down deep in you souls that he is the one that you wan to spend the rest of your life with, well i would give anything to be with him again. i pray everynight that he will come back to me, and i hope everyday that he will call and everynight i cry myself to sleep. what am i going to do i will never find anyone that i will love as mch as i loved him adn i know it. i just can't hate him and i want to so much, but i just can't!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

well im sorry to tell you this but it doesnt...i fell in love with a boy too and we brok up. i cryed myself to sleep for 5 months. i prayed to god to bring us back together..anything. i soon relized that i was being selfish, i really loved him and i wanted to be with him more then anything but he didnt want to be with me. i relized that all i wanted was for him to be happy. as soon as i relized that it was easier for me to not be with him. I still love him more then anything in the world and still want to be with him. but im ok with out him, ive liked other guys and have dated them. even tho that has happend the boy i fell in love with has a spot in my heat that will never go away. it may hurt now and when you look back on it... it will but you will learn to deal with it. and sometimes it wont be such a great pain. and about you hating him. i know i went though that to. but you can never hate someone you really love. i hope i helped.

ACtually yes, the pain can go away. Doesnt mean it will. in time, you will feel that tug deep in your soul and want to spend your life with a new man. then the pain will go away.

For me, I didn't get over my 'love' until another, 'better' love came along. well, I think he's better. but I'm bias. and it didn't happen right away. there were a lot of losers & liars in between. what I've learned though is that we shouldn't live for love. we should live for life and dreams, and let love find us.

hey huni, you dont want this guy back if he is leaving a grl coz she is pregnant.
a while ago i went thro a break up of a year and 3 months and that was damn hard! i cried my self to sleep so many times, i didnt eat properly and became ill. but dont worry because it dz get easier. just after i broke up with this guy i met another person and we became gr8 friends and he helped me through me break up.
naturally we got to know each other pretty well, and well wat can i say, he is my soul mate, my true love and we have been togther 8 months today and hey have been the best 8 months of my life. i have never been happier. i was in love with the other guy but i have found my true love, so there is always hope hun, keep smiling, tomorrow will be a brighter day.
hope you feel better soon
sending my love
Sadie x

im currently goin through all this crap, n believe me it feels like living a nightmare through out the whole day. i kno for a fact that there wont be no other girl to love him as i, but if hes not understanding that... wa else can i do then to be strong n move on. ive been in this for bout 2 yrs n now im realizing that i dont deserve all this. n i will one day meet someone who will love me more than anything even though he has left this scar in my heart to remember him for life. but i just cant wait for that one guy who will sweep me off my feet. so this pain can leave me alone for good. dont make the mistake of dragging the pain cuz thats wa i did... it only made me stronger but im stubborn n well... believe me move on now before it becomes into a bigger mess. hope u feel better. tc peace.

With TIME...I think now if you think back on how you felt the DAY you split up and even the day after and compare it to the way you feel NOW it's already a little easier...keep your spirits!

The pain will go away in time. Just keep your family and friends close it will help to be with people you love it will make you strong with time and make you feel happier. Maybe he will come back until then try and be happy for yourself.