what should I do?!?!

  • nobody truly knows me
    18 years ago

    talk to her. if you talk about it, you may not want to do it any more. i should know. i'm a cutter, and i use to cut all the time. but i told my best friend and i'm talking about it on here, and i don't do it as much anymore. so, if you need to talk, you can always email me.
    overachieving_angel@yahoo.com
    ok, just whatever you do, don't kill yourself. if you think your bringing her down now, what do you think she's going to feel like if you do kill yourself? stay strong.
    **lisa**

  • mistressxsork
    18 years ago

    Leah, if you really care for your friend, you should tell her when you are going to do something, or want to do something. She may be able to help you out. You shouldnt worry that it may be bringing her down, because if it is, she would tell you. Also, you should try and break these habits. Good luck.

    -Jennifer.

  • Once an Angel
    18 years ago

    Yeah, I know exactly what you mean. I am a cutting trying to quit, but I slip some times and I have done some pretty bad things to myself. The person who knows the most is my bestfriend, but I know I am hurting her when I tell her this kind of stuff. She was just to the doctor who said she was too stressed in life and I DO NOT what to add to that. She says it doesn't matter but that's not true cuz I watch it affecting her. I don't want to hurt her anymore, so I really an tempted to stop talking to her about that stuff.

    -Mikochan

  • **Just Her**
    18 years ago

    I was like this with one of my friends, actually the situation sounds the exact same. And you know what she told me friend "i go to school everyday just to make sure shes there, to make sure shes alive"... it killed me inside. Its ppl like this that make you realize that you need to get outta depression. Distancing yourself from her WONT HELP, she needs to know your okay. And by this you actually need to be okay. Get real help. If you love her, your other firends n family, you'll get this help. Its scary but so worth it. Don't push her out, she wants to help and I think you need her too.