moms and dads..grr...

i dunno if its just me but i hate my parents with a passion...they think they know everything and always boss me around. they never think about me and never trust me. we argue about the stupidest things and they always win with the "because i said so" i just wanna know if other pple have these problems like me...thanks,
cherry

r u sure u hate ur parents?
maybe you just get annoyed because of what they do and you just feel so unforgiving i understand what your going through but im not quite sure if you hate them. i did have problems with everything really and i got so pissed off with them i just lost it really.

ya parents suck i dont get along with mine either, so much hate n violence and anger here
but u just gotta push thru and try to block them out
remember u are better than them bc what u go thru day by day

my parents they dont care about me like they always want me to be better than everyone else but its not for me its for their reputation it really does hurt.. when i think about it. we laways argue and stuff how im not good enough like i dont know what im sapposed to do i do good in school and if just on the computer for a while they go nuts like should you be studying they tell me.. like what more do i have to do =(........

thanks joe
and emotionless i no i no dude my parents expect me to get into fancy highschools and colledges and do well in everything and make good grades cuz what im doing now isnt good enough...and bla...bla bla
my parents are always yelling at me for being rude. no matter what i say to them they have something to say back like 'i dont like yer tone' or 'young lady. i will have none of that' and 'watch that attitude' omg i do all the time and i try so hard to please them and change my attitude and watch my tone and be a yong lady but no matter what...im not good enough

No matter how much ur parents nag you, get at you for things, they love you. and one day, they wont be here, they will be gone, and u will wonder why u didnt spend more time with them, let them know that u love them. Hate is a very strong word, and if ur not careful it will come back to haunt you. Love ur parents, look after them. otherwise ull regret it. hate is just a word, but words can do alot of damage.
My dad doesnt talk to his dad, therefore i dont know my grandad, never have never will. there are consuqeneces for ur words.

Georgi has a point definately, and still I sympathize with what you are saying. I am one of six kids and my parents love to pick favorites, except the thing is that I am not one of them. Also I have a sarcastic personality is some ways, cuz that is how I try to cope with life, by trying to make it funny instead do doing anything worse, so yeah, but my mother is really offensive and takes EVERYTHING PERSONALLY and then she gets made at me and gets in Dad involved and then things are never good. They are definately decent people and they even have some good traits. I just choose to learn from they what I don't want to be as a parent so I can be better for my children and not make the same mistakes. Good luck babe!

-Tainted Mikochan

It's just you and let me tell you why. You're acting like a selfish little brat. See you're a teen girl who wants to do what she wants and have tons of fun...am I right? I know. So your parents have rules and you don't like it. I have a very good friend of mine who didn't have rules at 13. Her and I were best friends. She started snorting cocaine, ended up in rehab and actually made the decision to move in with her father so she would have a real chance at life. Now after living with her father she owns her own home, is happily married and she works her ass off. Had she stayed with her mom I wouldn't know what to say about her life because I wouldn't have been around to find out. Your parents have reasons to their "madness" you know. It's not just to make your life miserable. In 10 years I want you to think about this childish little rant and think about how right I was. Kiss them and love them and be thankful that they care!!!!! I love my mother more than anything in this world and I thank God everyday for giving me to her...I see the way other mothers are and realize just how lucky I was. She cared and set forth rules that I had to follow and for that I could never explain how thankful I really am.

thanks for the advice natalie but i didnt need to be called a brat. you dont know me well enough to say that. thanks anyways
cherry

LMFAO....you ARE a brat m'dear. One day you will realize.

thanks bob

Yeah parents can be annoying sometimes, but I guess they know best. They've been through things we haven't, and are trying to prepare us for the best future possible..
They have our best intrests at heart :)
Laterz,
Shirlz.

everyone goes through a stage where they "hate" their parents. its about the teenage out cry to be independent. but see what you have failed to realize is, you're parents do love you..thats why they want the best for you...truthfully they dont expect you to go to those fancy schools...they just want you in a safe environment. and when you do get in those stupid fights, as much as you don't want to believe it...they're always going to win, because they're always right. see you're only 14...and its normal to have all those feelings towards parents, believe me i was the same way. but see what you need to realize is, you're luckey to even have parents in the first place. please dont let the fights get to you, and by no means dont think because they're over protective that they dont want you to live...they just dont want you to grow up to fast...believe me when they ground you or say you cant go out or w/e its in their best intention. i do however hope things start to go better in your life. take care and god bless

-domnique

=) thanks

I used to have problems with my dad constantly. Why? Because I always thought that I knew better than him. But lately, I've finally been giving him the respect he deserves and the respect comes back to me. By thinking that you're parents are worthless or annoying, you set yourself up for the feeling of not liking them or 'hating' them. Give them a little credit, they're human beings just like you are, not everything they do is going to be right, at least not in your personal opinion. While you & your parents may disagree with many things, sooner or later you're going to see their reasoning.

*Kayla*

i hope so thanks kayla

Cherry: Hun I Don't Even Have a Father, Imagine Waking Up One Day And Your Parents Are Dead, You Don't Know How Lucky You Are To Have Parents To Nag You, I Cry Everytime I See a Wedding On Tv Or In The Movies Because I Know I'll Never Have a Dad To Walk Me Down The Aile, I Watched My Father Die At a Young Age, You Compared To Me....Is Really No Comparison, Parents Nag They Are Irritating, But They Love You xoxo-Nikki-xoxo

thing with my parents is that they only care about their rep and i kno it.. im not stupid like with their brother and sisters (my aunts and uncles) they say like my kid is better than yours its all a big show to mine like if i screw up just once they'll compare me to my cousin and are like well your cousin is smart and he doesn't go out.. also my dad and mom were always strict with me... and they're past thing i wont can forgive but i havent yet but i will never forget

i also can't say that i hate my parents. i do dislike them greatly, however. i agree with you when you say that they think they know everything. i hate it when they say "i've been there" or "i've been through this before, you have to trust me" because i wanna scream at them that if they knew how it felt, if they've REALLY been through it... then they would know how crappy it feels and they wouldnt want to make their own freaking daughter go through it, either. but i dont know. i know how you feel. my mom and dad always try to talk to me and lecture me about life. sometimes i wanna tell them that i honestly dont care, but i listen because they're my parents. i'm stuck with them until i'm 18. oh joy.

buuut, we are lucky to have parents who care, like what some people said. but yes. sometimes a pain.

ORANGE DAI5Y

you don't hate your parents...i've been there i'm 19 my parents were just the same..don't do that..you can't go there..but overall it's for YOUR best interest..assuming certain variables..if they don't want you to go out on a certain night..there's a logical explanation..and they do know alittle more..same mistakes that'll get ya nowhere...except in mommy and daddy's shoes..i've gotten this speech a couple times..anyway goodluck with that..keep your head up..hit me back..peace

yeah i gotta say that our parents do care about us and we are lucky to have them...

but you have to admit...some parents over do it. like mine...i think that we should be able to experience life and wander around. make our oun mistakes. its better to learn from them than to have someone tell you that your doing something wrong. we do need our parents there for adive and love and care. to do what parents do best-take care of you...but theres a point where they cross the line. they controll your life. they make you who you are.

i love them and i dont HATE them

but i dont likethe way they do things eathier

ill be grateful and ill grow up

but i guess it depends on what kind of parents you have that makes what your opinion on this is

i act like im not thankful, but now I'm GLAD to have a "mean mom" because i'll grow up and be a disciplined, moral, virtuous, and complete adult... not one of those adults that do bad things, but a good one. everyone, please read the below. almost everything down here was true about my mom... but it really gives some insight.

*******INSPIRATIONAL*******

MEAN MOM
Author Unknown

I loved you enough...

Someday when my children are old enough to understand the logic
that motivates a parent, I will tell them:

I loved you enough... to ask where you were going, with whom,
and what time you would be home.

I loved you enough... to insist that you save your money and
buy a bike for yourself even though we could afford to
buy one for you.

I loved you enough... to be silent and let you discover that
your new best friend was a creep.

I loved you enough... to make you go pay for the bubble gum you
had taken and tell the clerk, "I stole this yesterday and
want to pay for it."

I loved you enough... to stand over you for two hours while you
Cleaned your room, a job that should have taken 15 minutes.

I loved you enough... to let you see anger, disappointment and tears in my eyes. Children must learn that their parents aren'tperfect.

I loved you enough... to let you assume the responsibility for
your actions even when the penalties were so harsh they almost
broke my heart.

But most of all, I loved you enough... to say NO when I knew
you would hate me for it. Those were the most difficult battles
of all. I'm glad I won them, because in the end you won too.
And someday when your children are old enough to understand the
logic that motivates parents, you will tell them..........

Was your Mom mean? I know mine was. We had the meanest mother
in the whole world! While other kids ate candy for breakfast,
we had to have cereal, eggs, and toast. When others had a Pepsiand a Twinkie for lunch, we had to eat sandwiches. And you can
guess our mother fixed us a dinner that was different from what
other kids had, too. Mother insisted on knowing where we were at
all times. You'd think we were convicts in a prison.
She had to know who our friends were, and what we were
doing with them. She insisted that if we said we would
be gone for an hour, we would be gone for an hour or less. We
were ashamed to admit it, but she had the nerve to break the
Child Labor Laws by making us work. We had to wash the dishes,
make the beds, learn to cook, vacuum the floor, do laundry,
empty the trash and all sorts of cruel jobs. I think she would
lie awake at night thinking of more things for us to do. She always
insisted on us telling the truth the whole truth, and nothing
but the truth. By the time we were teenagers, she could read
our minds. Then, life was really tough! Mother wouldn't let our
friends just honk the horn when they drove up. They had to come
up to the door so she could meet them. While everyone else
could date when they were 12 or 13, we had to wait until we
were 16. Because of our mother we missed out on lots of things
other kids experienced. None of us have ever been caught
shoplifting, vandalizing other's property or ever arrested for
any crime. It was all her fault. Now that we have left home, we
are all educated, honest adults. We are doing our best to be
mean parents just like Mom was. I think that is what's wrong
with the world today.

It just doesn't have enough mean moms.

so true

my dad's a total asshole, abusive, authoritorian, alcoholic, and he would never hug me, but he's blood and there's always that connection with him. he always gives a roof over my head and will go into debt for me and my brother and mom. plus I'm grateful for the doors he opens for me in the entertainment industry. he won't open them all until I finish college though because he's been on too many sets with messed up child stars. he's very protective of me. 'tis a gift and curse. the not hugging thing is still frustrating though. moms are cool though. moms are darlings.

yeah my mom i dont mind as much but my dad is always very short with me...we always have something to argue about...we argue about 3 times a day...im sure thats not a lot but it sure is frustrating

when I was younger, me and my dad argued a lot more. it's only gotten better now that he doesn't live with us. and he's stopped drinking. our views are just completely different. and I was / am rebellious. I've gotten to a point though where I don't care to argue anymore, cos I realize you're opinion is never going to change no matter how wrong you are. and who knows, I could be wrong too.

its so hard to tell cuz ive never known any different.

Its called your a teenager, its the timeless account of "i hate my parents!" but you dont hate them becasue if you did you wouldnt live with them or you would kill them, hate is a very strong emotion and it is the excact opposit of love therefore it takes just as much energy to hate as to love, so if you are putting that much engery into them, i personally think you can hate them. If you didnt have them the truth is that you would be patheticall lost, and you know it so don't deny it. yeah we dont always get along with them or even have a good relationship wiht them but i doubt you hate them.

JBN

yeah i disagreee too...thats a stereotype...not all girls are like that...im not a brat pple!! IM NOT INSANE!!

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