need some major help with a gurl

there is this gurl in my school and i have liked her for about a year now we use to be tight friends before but after i told her i like her she hates me like hell. i try talking to her but as soon as i get close to her i get butterflies in my stomach and the other day my friends forced me to talk to her. school ended early so she was going to pick up her lil sis from a junior scool and i went after her to talk to her and then i was scared to go in the scool and talk to her and as soon as i was about to go in she comes out and says stop fkin followin me and now i don't know what to do and i really want her and my friends say move on, just get over her but i just can't. Can someone please give me suggestions for what i should do.......please and thank you.......sorry for my writing im kinda use to of slang typin from msn

And also can you rate the quote i made up wile i was looking at her picture in the scool yearbook

villa im so sorry...i dont know that theres much that theres much you can do. some girls are stuborn and wont change their minds. she sounds like one to me by how shes been treating you. i know what this kind of thing is like and i can understand. try doing something like sending her roses and writing her poetry. or do something for her you know shell like. but be careful not to look desperate...or shell get scared off. and if she dosent respon to anything your doing then hun you need to give up and let go somehow...cuz its not good for you.
if you and her arent meant to be...then that only means that theres someone better that you need to keep looking for. and i promise you youll find her...
tell me how things go! i hope i helped.
good luck hun
~cherry

by the way...beautiful quote...only things like that come from love =)

thnks for the reply i really appreciate it.....i think she is one of those stubborn girls and i told mah friend which is also her friend to ask her y she doesn't like me and shes like she doesn't want a guy rite now........i actually did try to send her a note with these candycanes our scool were sellin but it din work out that good

I'm really sorry. I agree there are many stubborn girls who just don't care and no matter what you do it's not gonna work out. Even though you may have strong feelings for her, she probably doesn't have those same feelings for you. Sometimes it's really hard to get over someone but you have to try. After all there are pleanty more girls out there who will actually like you back. She obviously isn't one of them. If you feel like you want to keep trying go for it but if it doesn't work all i can say is move on. I really am sorry. If you dwell on one girl you will never know if there is a better one out there. Good luck.

Awww...thats a sweet quote. Some girls are too stubborn to see how much a guy really loves them. Your feelings for her are really sweet. I can understand how much it hurts. I've gone through it too.

guys thnks for the suggestions but no matter how hard i try to forget what happened or move on i jus can't for some reason....for some reason even after all this happened i have hope in my heart that she will one day like me back

Hey, I know that feeling. When no matter how they treat you, the feelings you hold in your heart just won't fade away. But from the sounds of it, you're a really sweet guy and could probably do alot better than her. I'm sorry if that is offensive to you (being that you like her) but she seems rather stuck up... Of course I could be missing something, so I guess I should keep the rest of my thoughts to myself. I just wanted to wish you the best of luck with this - don't set yourself up to get hurt, I know you don't deserve that. Happy Holidays and keep your chin up! That was a really sweet quote btw. I hope to see more :)

you koe wut you guys here are helping me out more than my own friends would...my friends never say stuff like this all they say is move on, y do u like her and all this other shit..........i really appreacite all you help. and maybe i can do better but for some reason again i just can't get her out my mind and think about someone else.

Look she doesn't want you and you're bugging her. Leave her alone dude.

maybe ur rite sniper but i don think she got a bf cause everyone koes bout me likin her and if she had a guy some1 would've came after me, which nvr happened...... and yo next time if you can't help out a person please don't make it worse and even post on the forum

-VILLA-
sory i had to change the name to my real name

hey villa...how are things goin with her? is anything anyones suggested working?

notins workin rite now cuz im on scool holidays for two weeks

you know, the girl you like shouldnt hate you just cause you like her. she's isnt mature enough to handle it, i guess.

do u guys think it can be cause of my religion she doesn't like me cause im hindu and shes muslim????

that could be it but it was never a problem b4 right? and i agree with bx chick...she shouldnt be mad at you hun. somethings wrong with that right there

love just sucks sometimes...or all the time for me. ive never had a happy relationship. i always find out ive been used for my looks or something stupid like that. guys never get to know me. theyv only ever cared about how i look. not all guys r like that right?

ye i agree there are guys around who look for outer beauty of a gurl and there are guys like me who like gurl cause of there inner beauty. and you know wut funny in love that no matter how mad the person gets at you, your feeling for some reason stay the same. the time she told me to fuk off i was jus looking at face and smilin and looking at her and sayin to my self how nice she looks when shes mad

quote:
that could be it but it was never a problem b4 right?

maybe it wasn't a problem before cause we were just close friends and now i want to take it further than that and that could be a problem

talk to her, trying to see why she has this sudden hate. maybe it's a comfort thing... you know?
maybe she was so set on being friends she didnt want things to change.
and man... you're like a cool guy too, looking at a chicks inner beauty instead of the outer. thats what i truly like to hear guys say/do. not all females are at the beauty level that most guys look up to, and thats messed up. they may not be as thin as a model, yet, the female that isnt "thin enough" have more of a beautiful personality. most models are so fake anyways.
so i truly do love the way you find the beauty in females without their body being the very first thing you look at.
even though i really dont know you i really do appreciate it! i know i didnt help much but i felt the need to say all this!

BX Girl

i do try to talk to her all the time, i have my mind made up every day all pumped up and im ready to talk to her but as soon as i get close to her i get butterflies in my stomach and i get nervous talkin to her and she is a gorgeous girl but i like the person she is more than her looks.

nothings working....THINK PPLE THINK

thnks cherry i really appreciate your help.....

sure...im really into this one for some reason lol. but i promise that ill help you any way i can..ill keep thinkin
cherry

thnks that means alot to me

If you rly love her...don't give up! Kepp on fighting for what you want and for the gurl that you love. Maybe you should try writing her a letter or a poem telling her exactly how you feel bout her. But if you have already tried that..then you are going to ahve to fight off the butterflies that you get and talk to her face to face. When you walk up, be like, listen...just let me say this...I need to tell you something and if you will just let me tell you this one thing I will leave you alone....but please let me tell you this one thing. She should make that deal with you. You said that your friends are telling you to move on....well listen to you heart always...in any circumstance....I know it's hard to hold on after it's been sooo long....but believe me if you always stick by her side and let her know that you love her...someday she will realize how amazing you rly are...and she will fall for you too..Good Luck with her...I'll pray for you!!!

-Amber Dye

thnks amber ill try my best to kill the butterflies and try to talk to her but i did try to talk to her once and she was like "vishesh leave me alone" and after that i couldn't get the courage to tlak to her

if you really love her...youll be able to do it...

alrite ill try after like a week and a half and let ya guys koe wut happens and i hope all your suggestions work

ill be waiting

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im fkin counfused i don koe wut to koe on one hand someone tells me to do one thing i want to do one and and someone else is tellin me another....

I think maybe after all this time, and trying all these methods, I think you should stop.
From all the signs so far, it doesn't look like its going to work. It seems as if she if feeling stalked and that's not a good sign...

Don't think of it as 'giving up', more accepting the situation and moving on. No point in dwelling on something that is never going to work.

Just my thoughts.

Laterz,
Shirlz.

*vishesh *sigh* i was really hoping for a better ending than this one..but now that i look at it from that point of view...its the right point of view.

its gonna take a lot of sweat and tears to get over her but im sorry. this is the way its ending...

when all ealse fails...sometimes you fail too

I know it's hard to get over someone you have strong feelings for. It might take a while but you really need to move on. I know it's not that easy but before you know it you will meet a girl who loves you back. Don't think she is the only girl for you. If you think like that you won't be able to move on. There are gonna be those certain girls that don't like you back. That's life. You win some and you lose some. I really am so sorry. No matter how difficult it may be you need to move on. I'm sorry :(

maybe you guys are right and i koe its gonna hard to move on but ill try my best and thnks for all of your suggestions and help

biieeeee

Good luck...bye

Aw,
Girls want what they cant have..

Ignore her for a week or two and then see what she does.