relationship problems.

ive got a ring on my finger....our relationship is almost perfect except for one thing....i dont know whatyou would call it....jealousy or fear of losing something so good but we try to control each other kind of....like before we met i hng out with only guys...i only get along with guys, but it wasnt realtionships it was like i was one of the guys but i havent ive only been hanging out with him but ive strated to chill with my buddies and he gets up set then he goes and gets me back by talking to girls hugging them which doesnt bug me but when he gets upset at me for doing it and makes me feel like crap for doing it then yea i get upset and we have b#$ch fits and i just am starting to get so stressed...i mean we talk through everything and always turn out ok we work so hard on our relationship but i feel like giving up and i dont want to he is the best thing that happend to me...he helped me quit drugs and ive been in and our of rehab my parents ex boyfriend everyone has tried but has never found a good motivation until i found him hes my angel any advice?

The only thing I can say is relationships always take alot of work. They take understanding and listening, and a whole lot of sacrifice. If you love him and he loves you (which I'm sure is the case if you're wearing a ring...) then all you have to do is make sure to discuss anything that bugs you guys. And being that, that is one of those things - you guys both have to be more understanding to eachother. Understanding and be willing to make some sacrifices. In your case, just talk to him and see if he'll mind if you simply spend less time with the guys. For him, I guess just tell him how you feel about his spitefulness...
I know it's easier for me to say all this then for you to do all this, but it's just how a relationship works. For example, I have a long distance relationship, and the guy I'm with is constantly over at a girls house. Almost for a week at a time, and he's cheated on me with her once... So it always drives me right insane whenever he just simply says her name. But they're best friends, and I can't take that away from him. So I suck it up, trust him (god hope I'm not makin' a mistake on that one) and let him go... Of course I told him how I felt, and he's agreed to see her less, and so far our relationship is great. He's everything to me,and vice versa... It just takes alot of communicating... Sorry if I wasn't alot of help, Best of Luck though!

doesnt that drive you insane enough to give up?....sometimes i feel that all this just takes the energy right out of me...how can you take that stress for so long....

any other advice guys?....im hanging in there by a string and i know for a fact if i end it , it will be the most stupidest thing ive ever done in my life by far

come one please guys just take a min and put down what you think

I know it must be difficult but if you want your relationship to last you need to get through. At some point in a relationship everyone has a thought of giving up (unless it's so perfect which is very unlikely). Try talking to him about these feelings. I mean the reason he gets so upset is because he's jealous and scared of losing you. Maybe you do something to prove to him you love him and won't leave him. He really wants you to feel the same way obviously since he's hugging other girls. Talk to him and ask him why he gets so angry. Tell him you love him and nobody could take his place in your heart. Even if you do get frusterated and feel like giving up, don't. Unless he ignores you or never wants to be with that's a time to really think about giving up. In a situation like this..just talk to him as much as it takes to get it through his head that those guys aren't anything more than friends. That's all i can really say. Ihope it helps. Good luck. -Brooke

Trust me if he really loves you don't give up. He's that certain kind of guy that comes around only once and a great while. If you give up on him it will be very hard to find another guy like that. He's the kind of guys many girls would love to have. You have him and i know you really don't want to give up. Just keep trying. No relationship is ever easy.

your so true.....i dont want to give up on him he realy is a guy who only comes around once....thanks so much