*~Room For Just One~*

Hey all...i really havent asked for advice in a long time but i think i kinda need it now more than ever. I have been best friends with Jarrod for more than 4 years and i love him dearly. he is my best friend and we always promised each other that we would get married at 24 if we havent already. well i used to be friends with this girl named Tiffany (who hates me with a passion now..Reasons Unexplained) and they have been dating for awhile..and i wish they werent. he seems happy with her but i know that he doesnt belong with her. i cant exactly say please dump her to be with me but i cant hurt him...Jarrod and i have been off and on for quite some time and i truly love him..i just dont know what to do. our relationships have been filled with love, passion, hate, lies and everything that we could ever overcome together. but i need him to understand that if he cant be with both of us. how do i tell him that without hurting him and embarrassing myself? please help..it would mean alot..thanks for everything...Val

I think you need to really examine your heart and what it wants...you also have to be prepared for the fact that his heart doesn't agree with yours...

hey thanks guys! it is kinda helping..i still havent told him yet. im scared. i hate knowning that they are together but at the same time i have to wonder y we arent. i love him to death but i dont know how to tell my best friend that he is making the mistake of his life and he should love me!!!! :( i need more help i think...oo p.s kool that ur name is val too!