i need some advice

  • *~Emma~*
    18 years ago

    ok i've known this guy for about a year but we never spoke (we were dating other people) but recently we started talking and straight away i knew we had some sort of connection. we are totally into all the same things! i feel so in love, it just feels so right! well it's been about a month and we're together now. but he just moved to brissy (i knew he was goin to) but he wants me to go with him. for this i have to quit my job, lose my friends and run away. now i only jus did this recently and it didnt turn out any good. but i just can't bare never seeing him again! i'd run away if only i wasnt so scared of what could go wrong...what should i do....(btw brissy is eight hours away from where i live now)
    luv em

  • karina
    18 years ago

    That is really hard to tell you what you have to do, but if you leave you will miss people you love aswell friends ect, and your job what you do about it, I think you should thnk it over, and follow your heart on this one, because what if something happens there and you can't come back to your job, or something.

  • Ele
    18 years ago

    personally i think it would be a bit foolish to run away especially with someone youve only been with for a month. you wont know everything about him yet and things may not work out then youll have to go back home with your tail between your legs apologising for making people worry. are you really willing to lose your job, your friends and your family over this?

  • *~Emma~*
    18 years ago

    you're never too young to fall in love and it can never happen to fast. no one can control they way they feel.
    i have told my dad that i am thinkin about going...but i havent told my mom yet. i have moved out about several times..i havent got a very stable home, but thats got nothing to do with why i want to do this.
    i've known this guy for over a year, it's not like we just met. i know we've only been seein eachother for a very short amount of time...but does that really matter when the feelings are sooo strong??

  • InvisibleGurl
    18 years ago

    I agree with the above person. Not to cut your life short. 16 is young, still have people to meet. I understand you've known him for a year, but only in 'love' for 1 month. Seems kind of short.

    However, I hope it all works out for you! :)

    Laterz,
    Shirlz