how do you tell someone your dying??

  • David
    20 years ago

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  • Aken Sol
    20 years ago

    I'm sorry about your condition but you're probably sick of other people's pity by now so I'm going to just give you my advice. Listen. My ex-girlfriend had leukemia and she never told me until she had to go to the hospital. You couldn't imagine the confusion i went through. All these emottions colliding... i wanted to take her lace.
    Well anyways, we both wished she told me earlier and so i think you should tell him right away, face to face. I hope this helps you out.

    Aken Sol

  • Aken Sol
    20 years ago

    I just think you should tell him when you're together about what your condition is and why you havn't told him about it earliar. If he's strong, he'll handle it well. Good luck...
    Aken Sol

  • Sean Allen
    20 years ago

    I would er, start with enjoying some of your memories of time together with him. Then probably tell him you love him, but that you have some bad news.

  • Dawn Manna
    20 years ago

    i think you should take him to your favorite quiet spot first. tell him you love him and do the ''remember the time'' thing. then say some thing like..."i wish that day would have never ended. hun, i have some thing to tell you and i know it is going to be hard to hear".... then just tell him. if you and him have a strong bond, he will understand. but whatever the outcome, remember that all of us are here for you and we love you. please email me and tell me how things turned out. pahoney88@excite.com

    good luck and may god bless your soul...i am really sorry that something like this is happening to you.

  • Manders
    20 years ago

    You need to educate your bf on your condition. Sit him down and say look. I have been wanting to tell you this for some time now. But I can't find the words to tell you.. Let him know you have a brain tumor and that it will get worse as days pass. make sure you guys are alone. Because this will be hard for him to grasp.

    Let him ask you questions, and try to make sense of this information you have just told him. However he needs to know. I don't think you would want to be with someone thinking they will be around as long as you are. Planning the future together.. Tell him before things get more serious between you two. He has every right to know..

    I am sorry for the bad news you have to deal with everyday.. I don't think I could be that strong.. Good luck... It's stories like these that make my bad days suddenly go away..

  • juss an allycat
    20 years ago

    awww im soo sorry about ur condition.listen up!!

    1.u hav not much time so tell him as soon as u can so u can soend more time and make the most of it

    2. Sit him down wen u tell him and go straight to the point, dont dawdle

    3.Be patient, ur boyf will be shocked and you need to be strong.

    Im really sorry i hope everything goes well 4 u guyz, and wat do u mean u shouldn't of sed yes!! course you shouldv sed yes u say now ulove him!!

    xxoo,
    alysse

  • alexander
    20 years ago

    awwwwwww
    poor U
    I hope U get better
    I`m sorry but the advice is I think U have to tell him

    * Alexander *

  • Brian King
    20 years ago

    start off with (name) i love you

  • Vanessa
    20 years ago

    well...thats tough...actually...you could talk to him when you're all alone and everything's serious and stuff... and slowly bring it up..and say that you love him? something like that...its kinda complicated...

    oh and i'm sorry that you have brain tumor, i wish i could help, really i do

    Nessa

  • Lexi Lou
    20 years ago

    i am so sorry that you have this condition but you are strong in my eyes. i havent met you but you seem to have a bold gene and i hope you live your life to the fullest and dont regreat anything you have done