please read, big confusing love problem HELP!

ok, Chris, i hope you dont mind me saying so (in a humours way only) it sounds a bit like a soap opera. but i think that if you could, stay with Hannah and be with her in the romantic love way, but also help ur friend raise the child and be there when either she or the child needs you to be, now you dont have to be a father to this child, or a bf to michelle, but that doesnt mean you cant be a good friend with her and still keep ur love relationship with hannah going and all good, it would be very very very VERY hard, but thats what i would try to do, i hope my advice helps you as much as you need it to, and if you need guidance and with to tlk to me you can emaol me on stoned_monk@hotmail.com. best of luck,
Ben

hmmmm, y are you moving over there, why can't she move with you (if you are paying then you could pay 4 her trip where you are) and then you can still b near michelle n help her out n b with hannah. i also think that mayb you should giv anthony a bit of a tlking to, and mayb you should tlk 2 michelle and tell her that you have feelings 4 her, but u also love hannah and want to b with hannah. i dont know the full story so im just suggesting things here, you have my full sympathy. hope wat i say helps.
Ben

wow hard decision. personally i think that you should just step back and think of your self.
1. do you get to see hannah at all? i mean really see her? physically? do you have fun when if/when you see her?
2. does she feel the same way for you as you do for her? have you tried to talk to her about this?
3. Talk to michelle. does she want you to be in her life the way you are thinking you want to be? if not, dont waste your time actually going after her and just be her friend. you can still help her if you need to ( that is what friends are supposed to do right?(i dont know because i dont have many!!! lol))

wow hard decision. personally i think that you should just step back and think of your self.
1. do you get to see hannah at all? i mean really see her? physically? do you have fun when if/when you see her?
2. does she feel the same way for you as you do for her? have you tried to talk to her about this?
3. Talk to michelle. does she want you to be in her life the way you are thinking you want to be? if not, dont waste your time actually going after her and just be her friend. you can still help her if you need to ( that is what friends are supposed to do right?(i dont know because i dont have many!!! lol))
4. does hannah know about michelle at all? have you mentioned her to hannah? you need to do so NOW!!! no matter what, hannah has a right to know about michelle
5. is hannah JUST dating you? find out. if not, you really shouldnt be with her anyways.

mainly, i am just trying to say that you need to talk to both of the girls and find out where they stand. you never know how things are going to turn out. good luck you seem like a really awesome guy. not many like you around...
love dawn