DONT KNOW WHAT TO THINK

Hey people...ok my boyfriend told me today that he is going to go to a titty bar with a friend on friday. We have been together for a long time and i dont know what to think. He knows im mad about it becaue he can tell when im mad. I dont know if it is wrong for me to be upset about him going. But just thinking about him being in a strip club or titty bar looking and touching naked girls just doesnt seem right to me. So i dont know what to do about it can someone help..i need male and female opinions.

I think you being upset is justified. But I don't think you should become terribly unhappy, or make this situation worse or anything. It seems to me that the guy is going with his friend probably because his friend wants him too, not necessarily because he is dying to himself. Even if that were the case, it sounds to me like your relationship is pretty strong. I agree wtih Tyler in that I don't think anything major or terrible will happen over this.

Ok thanks guys...see the thing is in Vegas most of the clubs u can touch the girls to a point. But im going to just try and forget it and hope he will not do anything he shouldnt do. I dont think he will cause he hasnt done anything like that before. I really appreciate ur opinions and im going to take them into consideration.
Lisa