Guys..

my boyfriend is acting really cold towards me at the moment and i'm trying to be supportive but i don't know what i've done or why hes acting the way he is. He mentioned something about me turning him down for sex one time, but i didn't think he was this upset about it, i was just wondering whats going through his head, like if he thinks i don't find him attractive anymore because i turned him down :S i've read "men are from mars, women are from venus" but im just confused. I'm giving him space but i'm driving myself crazy :(

But hes not like that at all...he doesn't pressure me in to anything hes not like that at all.

aww man you sound like my mum :-( he hasn't actually told me whats bothering him..i know stuff is, i dunno if its that, i just thought it was because i dented his pride or something

Hun sometimes guys just need space.. I mean you turned him down and now he's venting.. Thats what guys do. Don't worry about it to much I'm sure everything will be fine in a couple of days.. Just keep your head up and try not to worry about it to much..

just try to hang in there ok? evenn if he continues to act cold towards you or maybe even start pushing you away, hang on, just give him some room and time and just be there. maybe try make sure you give both of you a reasonable amount of time and just try to stay calm and talk to him just even a little once in a while about other things and try to cheer him up?

i'm not sure about sex because i really have no experience with it but my fiance started to push me away for 2 weeks and i didn't know what to do, i freaked out and kept asking questions, which annoyed him even more, he even became suicidal and tried to suicide twice? things were basically all wrong until christmas, and things got a bit better after that.

anyways, just hang in there ok? i guess you could say what i learned in those 3 weeks was that paranoia doesn't help anything, and its putting my tolerance and sanity again now after soething really horrible happened to my fiance last night x.x but i guess i improved... just a little bit.

thanks everyone :-) i tend to give him space when he gets all funny with me and he gets in touch when hes not so stressy...but i did talk to him and he told me he felt embarrassed because i had wanted to, then didn't so he told me he felt rejected and i can see why he did because if the roles had been reversed i'd feel rejected too. I think we gotta work on our communication, thats our main problem, at the moment its like a guessing game, when its ok to talk to him, when its not, i know he sounds like hes only after one thing, but hes not i can see hes not..if he was he would of finished with me a long long time ago..