I like a guy but i cant seem to figure him out

Well i like this guy and i think he likes me i just dont know wellhe is dating one of my "friends" but you can tell he doesnt really like her. me and my friends were talking that he might just be using her to get close to one of us. and mostof them think its me..// but i dont no what signs to look for saying if he does like me or not. and i dont want to jump to conclusions cuz he might like someone else but he is always teling me to beat up girls for him ( kidding of course) and he is always asking me for help..and talking to me plz if you have any suggestions on how to no if he likes me plz say

he just might like you, but do you really want to go with some one your ""friends" is going out with. if she find out that you 2 like each other she might feel like your broken her trust. i know i would if my friend told me she like my b/f. thats just me.

yha i guess thank you for that and well me and this girl arent very good friends or anything so would it still be bad if i dated him?

still even if you're not gud friends with that gurl it is still kinda bad..., you're still calling her your friend.. do you wanna be known as the guy stealer? or something worse..?

But yeah watever you do is your decision...
Hope it all works out for ya.
Laterz,
Shirlz.

hey yha i guess your right..its jsut i really really really like this guy but i dont want to be known as the boyfriend stealer...thx

Sometimes you can't help the way you feel. I went out with my ex best friends b/f and she started saying stuff about me behind my back. People spread rumors about me beinga whore and i was confused. After all her ex was the one who asked me out. After a month and one week he lefted me for her again....pretty sad. Anyways the point is if you really like him you can't help that. If he asks you out i say go for it but just talk to your friend before makinga decision. Ask her if it would bother her. If it would bother her i wouldn't do it. It's wrong to hurt a friend unless they were talking behind your back! Sorry personal expirience.

both very good points, if the two break up and the only way I will go out with him is if he asks me ... and I will ask her if it will bother her AT ALL and to be honest..
thank you all so much!

um well first, its your firneds boyfriend. You should be really careful there. and, one can tell if a guy wants a girl. just by the way they look at hte other person, or talk to the other person. looks at things like, when ur in a big grup does he look at you alot? does he play with you more thatn anyone there. guys are really difficult to understand, but so easy to see within. hope you got that. Good luck

one question? imagine the problems that will arise from you taking your friends bf, whether its yur fault or not. are you ready to handle whats to come?

yes when we aree in a big group he always looks @ me.. and like we went skating and his gf fell down and he didnt care but then i fell and he came rushing over to help me.. could that be a sign?

thanks everyone

your not the only one that can figure out guys. its a universal question. play it by ear. see what hapens.