Just me
19 years ago
So theres this girl and me and her started to hang out more and we eventually became best friends..we hng out all the time..if you saw her you would also see me and vice versa.. so i went over to a different friends place and they made me see what this girl was doing to me..she was trying to get me into drugs and drinking..and so i pushed her away just like that we were friends and now we arent ...she is now into hardcore drugs..//sex// drinking.and even gets expelled from school but sometimes i still feel like i want to be her friend even though i pushed her away and i wont be her friend..I jsut want to no if I should say Sorry to her or be with my friends now and not drink or smoke or do drugs because im not into that stuff..(.i hope i worded this right ) |
Void
19 years ago
You worded it alright... And frankly, you can definately try and say sorry, but while you do that - explain to her that you didn't want to get into that stuff. Tell her how you feel about what she's doing, try to help her out and show her a better path than the one she's chosen for herself. By all means though, stay true to yourself. Don't do the things she does just to be with her. Stay true to your other friends, don't ditch them all the time to help her out - as they were the ones who protected you in the first place... So basically, if you say sorry to her, don't just say 'sorry i did that..' tell her why you did that, tell her your worried about her and...Well I hope you know where I'm getting, if not feel free to email me and I'll get right down to specifics... lol lets hope I worded that right too... Best of luck to you! |
Eibutsina
19 years ago
Its really sad to hear your friendship is falling apart...something I learnt along time ago about what TRUE friendship is that friends are the people whos faces light your darkest hour. Its easy to be a friend through the good times but its the tough times that really show the true character of a friendship... |