Help I need relationship help!!!!

Hey I need some help. I have this REALLY BIG crush on someone and I don't know if that person even likes me that way. And we've been Best Friends for like 4 years and I'm afraid that if I tell them that I like them that it will ruin our friendship.What should I do?

do u know if they like you?

"do u know if they like you?"

"i don't know if that person even likes me that way"

Clearly not.

sry, i guess I didnt see that part of the thread.
Calm down kim

lol well can u guys help?

If you telling someone how you really feel about them destroys a friendship then why are you all friends to begin with. If that person doesn't feel the same then you two should beable to carry on as always. My opinion...if you don't tell them you'll always wonder...what if - drum up some nerve and do it...make it clear though that if the other party doesn't feel the same that the friendship means no less than it did before....good luck

humph i aint got no nerves. But what if i changed the figures and say that my crush is a girl and if you look on my profile you'll see the small hitch in this crush.

I'd say you're only 13....you don't know yet.

:P heh ill wait for awhile then see if anything changes.

I don't fully believe someone at 13 can KNOW they are gay or not. Growing up and trying to find yourself is a very difficult thing...don't confuse that process anymore than you have to. You wanting to tell a girl that you like her could very well cause conflict as young girls feel very strongly about this particular issue. Be careful...and don't try to move too fast.

Thanks :)

hey you should just hint at it, it worked for me, and me and my b/f are really close, even closer then friends