Offering Help

yo yo yo!!!!!
Im Georgi im preeeeeeety sure lotsa u know me alredy! Im an assisant in the "haven for teens" club, if u havent joined u shd cause tis awesome! :)

Anyway jst wanted to say, i hate seein ppl upset, n altho i cant create a permanat solution, i can help you feel better and give u short term solutions instead =) I no mosta u will say im "too young" or "arent proffesional and cant give advice" well thats not true, im not too young, ive been thru alot, and ive worked in Aylesham as a physcologist and have dealt with children with disabilites, suicidal teenagers, teenagers with MAJOR attitude problems! (lol) and lots more, so rly, if u need a second opinion n u feel alone, dont hesitate to email =)
irresistible_999@hotmail.com

love ya'll!
~Geo

I would love to talk to you but i dont open up to people i dont know easily..its nothing againest you its just its the way i am...sry

You're 15 and have done all that? wow you're a frigging miracle worker.

i only put "lol" after attitude problems. nothing else. im not 15 im 16, 17 this year. Im only trying to help, i wouldnt put this up unless i knew i could help. u just gotta trust.
~Geo

Still 16 and done all that? you're still a friggin miracle worker. Hmm.

u dont believe me?! lol, alright then! i rote three poems about it actually. catherine libby and clara.

I wrote 3 poems about child abuse and rape. I havn't experienced any of it.

trust me u cant help me

How will you know if u havent tried?
im not forcing you, im just offering help. but forget it.

She's just trying to help, theres no need for *some people* to be nasty. :(

So wait ur 16? cool.. ya no one else will help me so i have no other choice ive gone everywhere....

ill be glad to help out, well i can try neway,not many ppl seem to think i can =( but i no i can help u smile atleast
xxxxxxxxxxx

how can i talk to u email?? wat i dont no???

yeh email:)
irresistible_999@hotmail.com

ok i emailed

Damn so many of you poeple are so rude. Jeez! *rolls eyes*

And Geo you've done all that and your only 16! i've got to say thats amazing! good job lil one! (And don't take the 'lil one' on offense, i say that ALL the time lol)
~Luvz~
~Chica~

thanks Bob....
*smiles*

everyone, just listen to this please, I dont know why Georgi is writing this here, because she hasnt done all of that stuff, in fact she has been cutting herself for a while, i am 18, i offered to help some people, georgi came to me asking for help and then all of a sudden she said i was silly and couldnt help anyone, she said she doesnt know me, i cant help anyone, Now to be honest nor can she.
You dont know her really, she says that she's done all this but she is just lying.

You guys need to be nice i have talk to Geogi before i dont know her well but neone can help you if you want help and just cuz she cutts or DID cut i dont know doesnt mean she cant help it just means she knows alitlle more about how you feel i cut and i still help ppl and ppl still come to me for advice cuz they know i have gone through it

XXX emogirl

Tara! you KNOW thats not true. I wrote several poems about the little girls i met when i worked in Alyesham, you are very welcome to read them. Im not sure why u wouldnt believe me...but everyone is entitled to their own opinion i suppose =) altho i have actually never met so you not sure how u would know what i do with my life
Working with the children and teens was one of the most heartbreaking experiences of my life, but it helped me see things from a different point of view, and it was THAT which opened my eyes to see things more positively, because compared to the awful things i saw them go through, i am actually very lucky.

Tara, i feel very sorry for you.

~Georgi =)

ps. all u gotta do is email, if u need anything at all.

irresistible_999@hotmail.com

hey ya'll... I go to the haven for teens, and I would like to say it is a great place! it really helps and there are loads of nice people.
give it a try, what've you got to loose?

yes, it is =) its wonderful! =) tara, maybe you should join, we could help you out with some of the issues u seem to have.

Sympathy For The Martyr - Straylight Run

You just can't relax,
And you can't rely,
On anyone for anything,
So you make your complaints,
And all everyone's let you down,
You just cant,
Ever win,
Convinced there's a war on,
It's always everybody versus you,
Convinced that your critics are watching,
And you've always got something,
You've always got something to prove,

So tie the noose,
And raise the cross,
The martyr's arrived,
A desperate plea for sympathy,
It's all you'll need,

A laundry list of problems,
Doesn't make you interesting,
And never getting help doesn't make you brave,
Not listening to reason doesn't mean that you have faith,
Your just cutting off your nose to spite your face,

So tie the noose,
And raise the cross,
The martyr's arrived,
A desperate plea for sympathy,
It's all you'll need!

And you want it all
You want it, you want it all,
You want it, you want it all,
You want it, you want it all,
You want it, you want it all,
You want it, you want it all,
You want it, you want it all,
You want it, you want it all,
You want it, you want it all,
You want it, you want it all,
You want it, you want it all.

BTW, I added you to my favorites. You sound like me. Always living for everyone else to avoid dealing with her own problems...

argh for goods sake, georgie was trying to do a good deal and yet you can't seem to appreciate that at all! if u had any deceny you'd be thanking her not throwing abuse at her! jeeeeez! I'd like to see you give the amazing advice she does for me!
love ya geobar!
bffogamweaw!
xxxxxxxxx

Thankuuuuuuuuuuuuu Meg!!! =) hehehe!
Im sorry to alla u tht dont think i can help, i as just offering, as the thread says "offering" help, u dont have to take it.

~Geo!

I don't plan to take it. So I won't.

HOLY CRAP!! How Arrogant and cocky ARE you people???????? GEESE!!!! I don't care WHAT any of the moderators decide to do with this post i"m about to make because,...well...if you can get away with hurling UNNECESSARY and UNAPPRECIATED abuse at Georgi, for attempting to help some of you OBVIOUSLY disturbed people, then I guess I can get away with this too. So here's what I have to say.

Georgi has been through a lot. Cutting isn't the end of the world, and if you're smart, you'll realize that there's more to a person than what they've DONE....Have none of you EVER heard that mistakes make you a smarter person??? I'm not saying she was bloody brilliant for cutting, I'm saying that she's not the same person she was before.

And Tara Kay......its people like you, degrading backstabbers that make me want to hurl PEOPLE LIKE YOU off a cliff. It drives me CRAZY how self absorbed and cruel you are to Georgi for offering to help!

FOR CHRISTS SAKES, PEOPLE! This world NEEEDS help, i mean look at all of you who posted telling her she couldn't help you without even TRYING TO LISTEN TO HER!

GOD! I know that ever since I've been friends with her I'm a better person now than i've EVER been. I've done stupid things and its pointless for me to hide that, but if you say, Tara Kay, that you've never done something worth regretting, You're the Liar here, not Georgi.

And I'm not just sticking up for Georgi because she's my friend, let me just say that. All of you who just assumed she couldn't help you, who had to abuse her for just TRYING to help, you took it too far. I would still be writing this for anyone's defense because its COMPETELY RUDE. And it is people like you, Tara Kay, that bring out the terrible side in me.

Trust me, most of the time I am a very pleasant person and easy to get along with, but not when I see someone getting hurt. I hate never feeling strong enough to speak out in my own life to defend the people i love, and I'm not about to stand by and watch you do that to Georgi, or even talk to her like that for that matter.

And if anyone of you were offended by this post,...get over it. I've learned a lot this year, experienced a lot, and I've always saw something in Georgi that I've never seen in anyone else in my entire life. She's extremely special and she's one of those people that could change the world someday. But its also people like you guys who discourage her from living up to her full potential.

Bring up my history if you'd like, but whatever it is you say or hold against me, I've learned a lot from and I continue to learn.

I can't exactly remember the quote that I learned this year from my Lit Class during the Holocaust unit, but maybe some of you should learn it because its really touching.

Its about watching everyone else get taken away and how he just couldn't stand up for them for obvious reasons. And it just kept happening, and he just watched everyone else, people he loved get hurt and taken away, and he always kept silent. And finally, it was his turn and no one spoke up for him.

Think about that if you were in Georgi's position. Those who stay silent are just letting things like this happen, but I'm standing up because its unfair what you're doing to her.
Love,

Sierra

You need to lighten up on the "Caps Lock" button just a tad. And I hardly read any of that. I got to "degrading backstabbers" and got bored. Learn to shorten your posts. No one wants to read an essay. Oh, and stop creaming Georgi, it's incredibly unhealthy.

sorry georgi. And to everyone else. I didnt mean to say that, its just that Georgi used to talk to me, i offered her support and she throught it all back at me. I know that's no reason to be so thoughtless, heartless, cruel or any other word you want to use.
I am very sorry, and good luck Georgi in everything you do.
I would like to wipe the slate clean and call a truce, up to you.
Sorry, am i forgiven?
love ya all Tara-Kay x

hehe.. I forgive you Tara Kay, and doubtlessly, Georgi will also.

Kim--If I had a lot to say, why limit myself? If you give me a reason to say something, I"m not going to hold back.

So shut up, learn to read, and learn to apologize. Jesus. No one's asking you to jump off a bridge.

1. I can read. 2. What the hell should I apologise for? 3. Why feel the need to blaspheme and 4. Taking advice from a stupid 16 year old I might as well jump off a bridge, a lot of help she's going to do me. Oh and 5. "Shut up?" Well if I have a lot to say I also will say it. So do one.

HAHAHAHHAHAHHAHA
Oh god.

I do wish I knew what your problem was.
Lack of sleep? Lack of friends? Constipation?

Idk..maybe Georgi could help you out....If she wanted....but not with the constipation. Ewie.

Ugh you think you're so witty! You're just a stupid yank with no humour whatsoever.

"Lack of sleep. Lack of friends. Constipation" Oh you make me laugh so much. I think not.

Georgi couldn't help me out. For starters her best friend is over a computer screen. Well that's gotta be fun. Loser. Maybe she needs to get into the REAL WORLD and make REAL friends. Not someone who lives thousands of miles away and has a different time zone.

Are you gunna start creaming her again and "tell me off". god you people p*ss me off.

Then my job here is done. XD

Oh...& if you're so great and almighty, what are YOU doing here in the discussion forums anyways?

And if I remember correctly, I USED to be friends with you. Oh so witty? I certainly don't think that. Haha, I think I'm just a stubborn southern girl, and at least I'm not taking any of your crap personally.

Creaming her off?? Who the crap SAYS that?? That sounds like....wow..that sounds just really nasty.

I'm a stupid WHAT? What's a yank? Wait..nvm..i don't care..ha.ha.ha.

Sucker. :-P

I'm just her best friend, btw. I'm not her ONLY friend, which is actually really retarded for you to just assume that.
And it IS fun....I think you should try to make more friends, really. Its fun to have them....maybe you just took it so offensively becauuuuuse......perhaps you have none?

Well thats okay.

Change your attitude & maybe people will like you more. That's MY advice.

Tootles AGAIN.

Sick.&.Tired. Of. Waiting. I really like your attitude becuase Kim treated Georgi like crap and she was trying to help and none of these ppl had to even let her help them but they put their two cents worth into it...well i think you must be a really good friend... xXX emogirl

awww! Thank you emogirl!!!!
I'm glad you appreciate, ot notice my effort.
XD

hey everyone
sierra, just wanna say thanks for sticking up for me, means alot =) emo girl is def right ur a fab fab friend. BEST friend.
Kim, i started talking to sierra a while ago, about a year maybe, not sure, but as soon as i started talking to her, i KNEW there was something special there, u no, we havent met, but does that matter? friends are there for you when u need them, sierra is always there for me all i have to do is come online or phone.
friends love u for who you are, and done judge, sierra is a real friend and i love her as much if not more than my other mates. Shes my angel.

And....yank...THAT just made me laugh.

Another thing, i may be 16, but im certainly not stupid. in the real world? i am in the real world, u only gotta look at my past to realize how much ive been exposed to. maybe its U not in the real world, i mean, if u cant appreciate the fact tht i only want to help, maybe help some people who think they r totally alone in the world, i cant offer amazing help, because im not as experienced as id like to be in Psychology, however i can offer my friendship. and i believe tht its FRIENDSHIP and KINDNESS that helps people believe in themselves.

Im sorry that u feel u have to argue with me and others tht stick up for me, because really, i didnt mean to cause any trouble, i only wanted to offer some help. Sorry if it offended you. but u didnt NEED to keep posting here.

Tara, of course i forgive you.

~Geo

and kim, u may not think sierra has much "wit" lol but personally its her sense of humour that always gets me to smile when im crying. people have different kinds of humour that make 'em laugh, its silly to get angry at her becuase it wont get u anywhere. she makes some people laugh, she doesnt make u laugh, but thats because u chose to bash and insult her, rather than get to know her.

adfj;kal hecks yeah.

hahaha.

Hey Geo. I'm talking to you right now Online and i just told you to shut up cuz i'm reading your lovely message. Tehee!! LOVE YOU.

P.s You may talk again. XD
I didn't actually think you'd take me seriously....hahahahaha

ahahahhaa i no i read "shut up, im reading ur lovely message" i was laughing for a while, then decided to actually shut up n see what happened lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
LOVE YOUUU!