dying

cry
talk to people, especially family
continue to live as you think they would want you to, have a goal in mind, and go do that. honor their life by living yours.

It is hard...my grandpa was like my best friend and he died about a year ago and im still not over it. he also died of a heart attack but spent 5 months in the hosptail and passed away 5 months after the attack. I learned that talking to people and writing poems helps me. My guidence councler told me to write a letter to him..telling him how much i missed him, it might sound odd writing a letter to a dead person but it helped. I also have pictures of him that help me remeber him just after a year its getting harder and harder to remeber what he was like. But I would talk to people at the right time they probebely will be upset for awhile but friends are a great thing to turn to at a time like this. He is with you in heart so he is not gone just think as it as a long vacation for him because you will be together sometime in the future. If you want to talk more Im here for ya

No problem...it helps to talk about loved ones that die. Im here if you need to talk, jus temail me or something