What is gonna happen?

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    My friends b/f of 7 months just broke up with her today. When she broke down crying i felt horrible. I let her cry on my shoulder and i hugged her and said it would be ok. What really pisses me off is the fact that Keith said he tried to make it work but it wasn't working. He also acted as if he could care less. He laughed and ignored her. I tried to explain to Kathy that she would probably would go through some stages over the next few months. One of the first stages i told her was anger. She said she wouldn't get angry but yet today when she heard him laugh she said "i hate that stupid laugh". I just looked at her and said " but you used to love that laugh" and smirked. After that she smiled but a few minutes later she looked on our friend Marys binder. Everyones name was on it. When Kathy saw Keiths name she started to cross it off with a pen. During 3rd block she told me that she wanted to throw away all of the things he gave her. I told her she shouldn't. I told her that even though it may hurt, you will want something to remeber the good times you had. I still feel awful. Just seeng the look on her face when she broke down crying was hard to handle. I'm sorry this is so long. I just wanted to know if you guys think she should throw the things from him out or not. I also wanted to know if you think they will end up being friends again. I mean they made a promise that they would still be there for one another even if they broke up. Only today they just ignored eachother. I don't want this to ruin their friendship. Do you think it will?

  • ASPHYXIATED
    18 years ago

    Heya Brooke its Lisa =)
    Anyhoo, I don't think she should throw the stuff out, maybe put it away until she can face it again but never throw away memories.
    I threw away all the stuff my ex-best friend gave me the friendship bracelets everything and I regret it so much.
    If I was to throw away the stuff my ex gave me I'd die.
    WE need stuff from the past to show us the future will be okay! Tell her not to thrw the stuff out but maybe to look at it and realize that even though he turned into a jerk dosn't chnage the fact he made her smile so many times before.
    Do ya see where Im going with this?
    Ah well if she throws the stuff out, she WILL regret it some day.

    xD

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    Lisa....thnxs for the advise i will tell her. I just talked to her a little while ago and she's thinking of getting rid of a necklace he gave her for x-mas. I havn't talked to you for a while.....i hope everything is going good for you. I'm sorry about your ex- best friend. Ok i guess i'll ttyl. -Brooke