Advice to a poor, helpless girl trying to win a guys heart!

Ha I know the title is over dramtic.. but please hear me out.

So I'm a Sophomore in HighSchool, and am in a gym class. Lets just say I have never really like liked a guy before, I had friends, but I have never felt these emotions... so theres this guy who is everthing I'm not. Hes loud, outspoken, and bit on the wild side, but is also a total sweetheart. And well as the title says, I like him!

I have been flirting with him for some time now, got his # and txting him and trying to make plans to hang out. The thing is, we make plans, or more likely hes the one to make the plans, but then the plans don't end up working. its upsetting, but i tell myself "next time". This has happened like 5 times. Then one night we were up till like 3ish txting, and flirting. The next thing you know its winter break, and he finially called asking to hang out. I was so excitied! but like before, it didn't work. Then he went out of town and we didn't get to hang out the rest of break.

So now its the first day back, and we are at gym, and I'm still upset over the fact that we didn't hang out, and he never called, or txted. I sorta in a way ignored him. And guess what he did the same! The only thing he said to be the whole hour was commenting on how agressive I was playing. I just don't understand, I really like this kid, and I don't know what to do to let him see that! Tomorrow should I be flirty agian? I'm so confused, please I'm asking for your honest advice

Ah Bob your a sweetheart! Now I just have to work on building confidence, so hopefully I can do something along those lines! Its just weird for me today, because we flirted the whole other days, but I guess all I can do is hope for the best

Aw, -sigh-
I'm in a very similar relationship except i dont talk to the guy i like and he doesent talk to me. For some reason he'll talk to everyone else but when it comes to me he wont say a word. I've just learned to accept it -sigh-

You should be happy that at least u get to talk to your crush. But yeah i agree with the rest of them go up to him and just say something ask him to go somewhere during lunchtime

Well I'm sorry to tell you, but I think he likes someone else in our gym class, I see them flirting all the time, and god its like a punch in the chest... and I don't know since this is my first real crush... it really hurts! Ah now to add more to my stressed out life, I need to get over this crush...

Any advice to heal a broken heart?

It's me agian, complaining and on the merge of tears once more. So this girl that I think he likes.. asked me to ask him if he was able to go to selgles(formal dance). So clearly I know that she likes him, and I'm pretty sure he likes her... to make the situation worse, of course she goes. " He texted me today and said the CUTEST thing, it really made my day." As if I really care! AHHHH

I'm sorry everyone, but I feel as if, my heart keeps breaking more and more, and I don't know what to do to make it stop.

aww hun i know thats tough. but dont make it obvious that it gets to you. from experience no guy likes a girl that dwells. confidance and assertivness is always a plus. play it by day. things change so quickly at the age you never know what could happen. good luck hun

aww hun i know thats tough. but dont make it obvious that it gets to you. from experience no guy likes a girl that dwells. confidance and assertivness is always a plus. play it by day. things change so quickly at the age you never know what could happen. good luck hun

Guess what everyone. So I got the courage to ask him to our winter formal, and he said yes! I was soo excited, but then the next day, he texted me saying that " I think you should go to the dance with someone else, because it wouldn't be fair to you if I keep winning( he had a tennis tourny that weekend, and if he kept winning wouldn't be able to go). I was upset of course, but I guess I found out he doesn't like the girl I thought he liked, and well atleast I know that if he didn't have the tennis, he would have said yes!

I know its upsetting, but I'm thinking of calling him and saying. " Hey if you for some reason don't end up making it to the finial round, and your open that night we should hang out and pretend it was like the dance"

What do you guys think?

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I think thats a great idea.
It's really obvious that he likes you, and he's willing to talk and hang out instead of ignoring you and running away, which is good.
I think that idea for formal is great,
its really cute too.

Thanks, now I have to work up the courage to ask him to do that! hah